Very instructive here is the way in which children will voluntarily come
and submit themselves to our discipline. The little girl M. when less
than two years old, would go to her mother and confess some piece of
naughtiness and suggest the punishment. A little boy aged two years and
four months was deprived of a pencil from Thursday to Sunday for
scribbling on the wall-paper. His punishment was, however, tempered by
permission to draw when taken downstairs. On Saturday he had finished a
picture downstairs which pleased him. When his nurse fetched him she
wanted to look at the drawing, but the boy strongly objected, saying:
“No Nana (name for nurse) look at it till Sunday”. And sure enough when
Sunday came, and the pencil was restored to him, he promptly showed
nurse his picture. This is an excellent observation full of suggestion
as to the way in which a child’s mind works. Among other things it seems
to show pretty plainly that the little fellow looked on the nursery and
all its belongings, including the nurse, during those three days as a
place of disgrace into which the privileges of the artist were not to
enter. He was allowed the indulgence of drawing downstairs, but he had
no right to exhibit his workmanship to the nurse, who was inseparably
associated in his mind with the forbidden nursery drawing. Thus a
process of genuine child-thought led to a self-instituted extension of
the punishment.
A month later this child "pulled down a picture in the nursery"—the
nursery walls seem to have had a fell attraction for him—“by standing on
a sofa and tugging till the wire broke. He was alone at the time and
very much frightened though not hurt. He was soothed and told to leave
the picture alone in future, but was not in any way rebuked. He seemed,
however, to think that some punishment was necessary, for he presently
asked whether he was going to have a certain favourite frock on that
afternoon. He was told ‘No’ (the reason being that the day was wet or
something similar) and he said immediately: ‘’Cause Neil pulled picture
down?’” Here I think we have unmistakable evidence of an expectation of
punishment as the fit and proper sequel in a case which, though it did
not exactly resemble those already branded by it, was felt in a vague
way to be disorderly and naughty.
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