It is curious to note the differences in the attitude of children’s
minds towards the mystery. The small person accustomed to petting, to be
made the centre of others’ thought and action, may be struck with the
blank in the common home life before his arrival. A lady was talking to
her little girl H., aged three years, about something she had done when
she was a child. H. then wanted to know what she was doing then, and was
told by her mother: “Oh, you were not here at all”. She seemed quite
amazed at this, and said: “And what did you do without H.? Did you cry
all day for her?” On being informed that this was not the case, she
seemed quite unable to realise how her mother could have existed without
her. There is something of the charming egoism of the child here, but
there is more: there is the vague expression of the unifying integrating
work of love. Lovers, one is told, are wont to think in the same way
about the past before they met, and became all in all to one another.
For this little girl with her strong sense of human attachment, the idea
of a real life without that which gave it warmth and gladness was a
contradiction.
Sometimes again, in the more metaphysical sort of child, the puzzle
relates to the past existence of the outer world. We have all been
perplexed by the thought of the earth and sky, and other folk existing
before we were, and going on to exist after we cease to be; though here
again, save in the case of the philosopher perhaps, we get used to the
puzzle. Children may be deeply impressed with this apparent
contradiction. Jean Ingelow in her interesting reminiscences thus writes
of her puzzlings on this head: "I went through a world of cogitation as
to whether it was really true that anything had been and lived before I
was there to see it.... I could think there might have been some day
when I was very little—as small as the most tiny pebble on the road—but
not to have been at all was so very hard to believe." A little boy of
five who was rather given to saying ‘clever’ things, was one day asked
by a visitor, who thought to rebuke what she took to be his conceit:
“Why, M., however did the world go round before you came into it?” M. at
once replied: “Why, it _didn’t_ go round. It only began five years ago.”
Was this, as perhaps nine persons out of ten would say, merely a bit of
dialectic smartness, the evasion of an awkward question by denying the
assumed fact? I am disposed to think that there was more, that the
virtuous intention of the visitor had chanced to discover a hidden
child-thought; for the child is naturally a Berkeleyan, in so far at
least that for him the reality of things is reality for his own
sense-perceptions. A world existent before he was on the spot to see it,
seems to the child’s intelligence a contradiction.
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
Reviews
Reviews
No reviews yet
Be the first to share your thoughts on this work.
Elsewhere in the archive
Join the Discussion
Join the discussion
Sign in to leave a comment or review.
Sign InorCreate an account