"Let your speech be alway with grace, seasoned with salt, that ye may know how ye ought to answer every man."--PAUL. Having devoted the previous pages to sketches of faulty talkers, I propose in this concluding chapter to give a description of a talker who may be exhibited as a model for imitation. As there is but One Model Man in the world, so there is only One Model Talker. The Apostle James tells us who he is: "If any man offend not in word, the same is a perfect man, and able also to bridle the whole body." But who is the man that offends not in word? Where is he to be found? Is he not rather an ideal being than a _real_ one? Be he ideal or real, it may answer some good end to set him forth as far as his ideality or reality can be apprehended. It may be well to premise just here that when it is said "he _offends not in word_," it does not imply that no one ever _takes offence_ at his word, but that he offends not through any defect in his intention, that he is not held blamable or responsible for any offence taken at his word. Not until every _hearer_ is perfect as well as every talker will offence cease on both sides. Did offence taken by the hearer necessarily involve offence given by the talker, He of whom it was said, "Never man spake like this man," would fail to be perfect; yea, even God Himself would come short of perfection: for how many took offence at the words of Jesus! and how many are continually offended at the words of the Almighty! The following may be given as the outline features of a model talker. There is only space for an outline. He endeavours, as far as possible, to ascertain the temper and disposition of those with whom he talks. He is cautious how he receives and repeats anything that he hears from one in whose veracity he has not implicit confidence. If any one with whom he is talking says anything that is detrimental to the character and interests of an absent person, he hopes charitably that it is not true, and avoids circulating it in his conversation or in other ways. He does not impose his talk upon others against prudence and propriety. "He spareth his words in wisdom and understanding" (Prov. xvii. 27). "Whoso keepeth his mouth and his tongue keepeth his soul from troubles" (Prov. xxi. 23). "He that keepeth his mouth keepeth his life" (Prov. xiii. 3). No corrupt communication proceeds out of his mouth; no bitterness, wrath, anger, clamour, evil-speaking, malice; no filthiness nor jesting, nor blasphemy, nor reviling, nor slander. (See Eph. iv. 29, v. 4; Col. iii. 8.) In the presence of fiery temper and enraged passion he says nothing to add fuel to the flame, but keeps calm and self-possessed. He never retaliates, or gives reviling for reviling, but contrariwise--good for evil, blessing for cursing.