Conversation -- Fiction; England -- Social life and customs -- Fiction
“Not consciously, perhaps,” admitted the Minor Poet. “Our instincts,
that they may guide us easily, are purposely made selfish. The flower
secretes honey for its own purposes, not with any sense of charity
towards the bee. Man works, as he thinks, for beer and baccy; in
reality, for the benefit of unborn generations. The woman, in acting
selfishly, is assisting Nature’s plans. In olden days she chose her mate
for his strength. She, possibly enough, thought only of herself; he
could best provide for her then simple wants, best guard her from the
disagreeable accidents of nomadic life. But Nature, unseen, directing
her, was thinking of the savage brood needing still more a bold
protector. Wealth now is the substitute for strength. The rich man is
the strong man. The woman’s heart unconsciously goes out to him.”
“Do men never marry for money?” inquired the Girton Girl. “I ask merely
for information. Maybe I have been misinformed, but I have heard of
countries where the _dot_ is considered of almost more importance than
the bride.”
“The German officer,” I ventured to strike in, “is literally on sale.
Young lieutenants are most expensive, and even an elderly colonel costs a
girl a hundred thousand marks.”
“You mean,” corrected the Minor Poet, “costs her father. The Continental
husband demands a dowry with his wife, and sees that he gets it. He in
his turn has to save and scrape for years to provide each of his
daughters with the necessary _dot_. It comes to the same thing
precisely. Your argument could only apply were woman equally with man a
wealth producer. As it is, a woman’s wealth is invariably the result of
a marriage, either her own or that of some shrewd ancestress. And as
regards the heiress, the principle of sale and purchase, if I may be
forgiven the employment of common terms, is still more religiously
enforced. It is not often that the heiress is given away; stolen she may
be occasionally, much to the indignation of Lord Chancellors and other
guardians of such property; the thief is very properly
punished—imprisoned, if need be. If handed over legitimately, her price
is strictly exacted, not always in money—that she possesses herself,
maybe in sufficiency; it enables her to bargain for other advantages no
less serviceable to her children—for title, place, position. In the same
way the Neolithic woman, herself of exceptional strength and ferocity,
may have been enabled to bestow a thought upon her savage lover’s beauty,
his prehistoric charm of manner; thus in other directions no less
necessary assisting the development of the race.”
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