I have seen a sixteen-year-old Belgian sentinel keeping watch over a
part of the German army, and all its science was powerless against his
keen young eyes.
But we must pay the price. And the cost falls heaviest on the women.
No woman has the right to hold her son back if he desires to go to war.
It is the fruition of the years in which she sought to make him a man.
It is the vindication of his manhood. It is the crystallization of those
very ideals which she taught him with his prayers.
I decline to believe that there are mothers who will not let their boys
strike back when they are attacked.
But it is hard. Always the relation between mother and son is very
close. As the boy grows up, the mother faces this, that he needs more
than she can give him. He is still her world, but she is no longer his.
Life calls, work and play and love, and sometimes battle. And the mother
cannot hold him.
Everywhere are mothers, women who have patched small garments and tied
up little wounds, who have built up a house of life out of millions of
loving services, whose world has been the four walls of home.
To such women comes the call for their sons, who are still to them,
though men grown, but the little boys of the stockings, and the small
wounds, and Christmas trees, and the Fourth of July.
I do not fear for these women, but we cannot minimize what they do. They
will send their sons, because they know that a nation is but a great
home, consisting of many small ones. Homes are the units of a nation, as
men are of an army. And these women know that our homes are only safe so
long as the country is. They know too that peace has fled from the earth
and cannot be brought back but by God and the sword.
Perhaps my own experience will be helpful. I am a home-woman, although
now and then my profession has called me to strange places. Our family
life has been very close. And, while I have little fear for myself, I am
a coward for my children.
When, some weeks ago, war began to come close, I weakened, and I wrote
my oldest son a letter. I was willing to have him do his duty, but I
asked him to wait. Womanlike, I wanted time. I felt that surely this
cross was not for me to bear so soon.
Then,—and may he forgive me for telling this, because of its
purpose,—after a day or two, he wired, asking his father and myself if
we wanted him to be a quitter.
I came to my senses then, and the necessary permission to enlist was
signed and sent. Then I sat down and wrote to him, and said we would
stand squarely behind him in whatever he did.
Easy? It was the hardest thing I have ever done. But I am glad now. I
would never have forgiven him, I think, had he failed his country. But I
nearly failed him.
So I have given one son, and I stand ready to give my other two, if
their country needs them, when they are old enough to go.
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