The American Spirit in the Writings of Americans of Foreign Birth
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The American Spirit in the Writings of Americans of Foreign Birth
American literature; Americanization; Noncitizens -- United States
My friends are now my husband’s friends. My home is that kind of a home
in which he has always lived. With my marriage I entered into a new
avenue. We have traveled. We have worked at tasks we believed in and
loved. We have our little son. I have not written much to mother about
my life. My letters have been--just letters. Her own letters have been
growing briefer these last years. She never came to see me in my home.
It was our little son who was the real cause of her coming finally.
I thought of his birth as the tearing down of that barrier that had
come between us. Mother was intoxicated with the delight of her first
grandchild, the first child of her first child. “Now we understand each
other better, now that we both are mothers, my daughter,” she wrote to
me, not knowing how much more than she meant to say her letters told.
I, too, felt that in my own motherhood I saw the explanation now for
mother’s unquestioning, unceasing striving and toiling and hoping and
planning and achieving for her children. “Now I can find the joy of all
mothers again. I can find my lost young motherhood in your child,” she
wrote. “I am coming to my grandson.”
Mother had not traveled since she took that long trip, twenty-five
years ago, from Poland to America, to come to her husband. And now
she was preparing to come from Soho--to us, to her first grandchild.
We were excited as the letters from home told us that they were. Day
after day, my sisters wrote to us, women came to mother, giving her
messages to take to me, whom they had known so well as a child. They
brought mother cake and jellies and wines, as if she were about to
travel a year instead of one night. My aunts came to help her sew her
clothes, my uncles came to pack her suitcases. It was as if all Soho
were coming here to us in the person of mother. Father hurried back and
forth securing mileages, a berth. He carefully explained to mother what
a berth was, and warned her above all not to forget to give the black
man, when he gave her her hat, a quarter. My sisters wrote such dear
letters, describing it all there at home.
We could hardly wait. Our little boy asked every day for “grammy.”
There came a deluge of telegrams to us, which clearly told us the haste
and nervousness in the little home in Soho, and we knew that mother was
on her way to us.
She came in the morning. She did not stop to kiss me, nor to look about
her, but as soon as she entered my home she cried breathlessly, “Where
is my grandchild?” And she held him to her, and the tears filled her
eyes. “Such a boy! But a boy!” she cried. We had written to her that
our boy was speaking now. She sat down beside him, and she crooned
love-words to him.
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