The Art of Being Happy: In a Series of Letters from a Father to His Children: with Observations and Comments — John Shaqi
The Art of Being Happy: In a Series of Letters from a Father to His Children: with Observations and CommentsDroz, Joseph
Philosophy
The Art of Being Happy: In a Series of Letters from a Father to His Children: with Observations and Comments
Droz, Joseph
Happiness
We shall be told, that these desires animate us unsought and
continually. I admit it. But in most men they are the simple result
of instinct, and are vague, and without decisive effect. A craving
for happiness is diffused as widely as life. The enlightened desire
of happiness is as rare as wisdom. The mass of our species do not
avail themselves of life, to enjoy it; but apparently for other
purposes. My first and fundamental maxim is, that no one should
live by chance. Enfranchised from vulgar ideas, and guided by the
principles of true wisdom, let happiness be our end; and let us
view all our employments and pursuits, as means.
I meet men of sanguine temperament, who say in the pride of
internal energy, ‘my calculations must succeed. I am certain to
acquire wealth.’ Another of the same class assures me, that he
sees no turn to his rapid career of advancement; and that he is
confident of reaching the summit of greatness. What more fortunate
result can he propose, than happiness? My pupil should make all
his plans subservient to the numbering of happy days even from the
commencement of his career.[9]
Let us beware, however, of aspiring after a perfect felicity. The
art I discuss, will not descend from heaven. Its object is, to
indicate desirable situations, to guide us towards them, when they
offer, and to remove the vexations of life. The greater part of
mankind might exist in comfort. They fail of this, in aiming at
impracticable amelioration of their condition. It is an egregious
folly only to contemplate the dark side of our case. I deem it
a mark of wisdom and strength of mind, rather to exaggerate its
advantages.
Let us carefully ascertain, what things are indispensable to our
well-being; and let us discipline all our desires towards the
acquisition of them. If I consult those who are driven onward
by the whirlwind of life, to learn what objects are absolutely
necessary to my end, what a long catalogue they will name! If I ask
moralists, how many sacrifices, incompatible with human nature,
will they impose! Agitated, and uncertain, I am conscious, that
my powers are equally insufficient to amass all which the former
prescribe, or to tear me from all which the latter disdainfully
interdict.
In examining this all important subject, without the spirit
of system, I realize, that the essentials of a happy life are
tranquillity of mind, independence, health, competence, and
the affection of some of our equals. Let us strive to acquire
them. They are numerous, I admit, and difficult to unite in
the possession of an individual. Nevertheless, if a severe
discrimination enabled us to bound our pursuit by the desire of
obtaining only these objects, what a great and happy change would
be effected upon the earth; and how many disappointments would be
henceforward unknown![10]
LETTER VI.
TRANQUILLITY OF MIND.
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