The Art of Being Happy: In a Series of Letters from a Father to His Children: with Observations and CommentsDroz, Joseph
Philosophy
The Art of Being Happy: In a Series of Letters from a Father to His Children: with Observations and Comments
Droz, Joseph
Happiness
To consecrate to true enjoyment as many days as possible, to
lose in disquieting desires as few moments as we may, these are
the elements of my philosophy. The world, on the other hand,
incessantly repeats, ‘Shine--ascend high places--bind fortune
to your chariot wheels;’ the multitude listen, and consume life
in tormenting desires which end in disappointment. I say to my
disciple, make your pursuit, whatever it be, a source of present
enjoyment, and be happy without delay. But the cry of objection
reaches me, ‘would you wish him to vegetate in obscurity and never
transcend the limits of the narrow circle in which he was born?’ I
would have him enjoy the self-respect of conscious usefulness, and
taste all the innocent pleasures of the senses, the heart, mind and
understanding. Farther than these, I see nothing but the miserable
inquietudes of vanity. I admit that the pleasures of gratified
ambition are high flavored and intoxicating; but compelled to
choose among enjoyments which cannot all be tasted together, I
balance the delights which they spread over life with the pains
which it must cost to obtain them. If I incline to ambition,
I must fly privacy and my retreat; and renounce the pleasures
which my family, friends and free pursuits daily renew. I must no
longer inhabit the paradise of my pleasant dreams. Abandoning the
simple and sincere enjoyments of obscurity, I abandon repose and
independence.
Suppose I obtain those honors of which the distant brilliancy
dazzles my vision, what destiny can I propose to myself? How long
can I enjoy my honors? Besieged by incessant alarm, through fear of
losing them, how often shall I sigh over the ill-judged exchange by
which I bartered peace and privacy for them? Number all the truly
happy days of the ambitious--they are those in which, forming his
projects, and, in his imagination, removing the obstacles that
lie in his way, he embellishes his career with the illusions of
his fancy. Too often the desired objects, which in the distance
glittered in his eyes, resemble those paintings which, seen from
afar, present enchanting scenery, but offer only revolting views
when beheld close at hand.
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