The Art of Being Happy: In a Series of Letters from a Father to His Children: with Observations and CommentsDroz, Joseph
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The Art of Being Happy: In a Series of Letters from a Father to His Children: with Observations and Comments
Droz, Joseph
Happiness
It will be seen that I abandon most of the trite declamation
against ambition. I touch not on its long inquietudes, its
inevitable torments, exacerbated a hundred fold, if their victim
preserve degrees of mental elevation and remains of moral
sentiment. Life passes pleasantly among men who have just views,
upright hearts and frank manners, the true elements of greatness
and enjoyment. Surrounded by such minds, we respire, as it
were, a free and an empyrean atmosphere. Yield yourself to the
empire of ambition; and in all countries, and in all time, you
condemn yourself to live surrounded by greedy, unquiet, false and
vindictive intriguers, gnashing their teeth at all success in
which they had no agency. All that encircle you unite insolence and
baseness.
Those who envy authority and office are worthy of commiseration.
Men in power are happy, they think. They have but to wish, and it
is accomplished. The epitaph of the Swedish minister is sublime,
and the index of a great truth. He had run the career of power and
fortune with success. When near the period of his death, he ordered
this inscription for his tomb: _Tandem Felix._ _At last I am happy._
We never leave the society of the great as we entered it. We have
become either better or more perverse. Inexperience is easily
dazzled with the superficial splendor. For a man of disciplined
mind and a character of energy, it is the most useful of schools.
Here he tests and confirms his principles. Here he observes,
sometimes with terror, sometimes with disgust, the melancholy
results of the seductive passions. He here sees those who seem to
have reached all their aims enjoying the repose of happy privacy.
I anticipate the objection, ‘that this is all absurdity; that not
one will be so convinced of his misery as to resign his power and
descend from his elevation to that obscurity for which he sighs.’
I believe it; and I see in this a deeper shade in his misery. He
has so long experienced the pernicious excitement of this splendid
torment, that he can no longer exist in repose.
Such is the lot of erring humanity, that the world naturally
associates glory and happiness with ambition, and sees not that
the association is formed by our own mental feebleness. To rise
above vulgar errors and the common train of thinking, to form sage
principles, and, still more, to have the courage and decision to
follow them, this is the proof of real force of character. But,
to feel the need of dazzling the vulgar, to be willing to creep in
order to rise, to struggle and dispute for trinkets, this is the
common standard by which the multitude estimate a great mind.
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