Of course most men who have homes of this description at a distance
cannot be with their families all the time. But, on the other hand,
the conviction that a busy man can do better work in ten or eleven
months than in twelve, is gaining ground, and most of us, if we only
choose to, can slip away for at least three weeks. Many of the demands
of modern civilization on the family purse cannot be resisted without
leaving the husband and parent a little depressed; but it seems to me
that a serious item of expense may be avoided, and yet all the genuine
benefits and pleasures of a change of scene and atmosphere be obtained,
if we only dismiss from our minds the idea of living otherwise than
simply. A little house with very little in it, with a modest piazza,
a skiff or sail-boat which does not pretend to be a yacht, a garden
hoe and rake, a camera, books and a hammock, a rod which is not too
precious or costly to break, one nag of plebeian blood and something
to harness him to, rabbits in the barn and sunflowers in the garden, a
walk to sunset hill and a dialogue with the harvest moon--why should
we not set our summer life to such a tune, rather than hanker for the
neighborhood of the big steam-yacht and polo-ground, for the fringe of
the fashionable bathing beach, for the dust of the stylish equipage,
and try in our several ways, and beyond our means, to follow the pace
which is set for us by others?
The _Summer Problem_.
II.
Why? Largely on account of that newly created species, the American
girl. From solicitude for her happiness and out of deference to her
wishes. Many a father and mother would be delighted to pass the summer
on an abandoned farm or in any other spot where it were possible to
live simply and to be cool, comfortable, and lazy, but for fear of
disappointing their young people--principally their daughters, who,
unlike the sons, cannot yet come and go at will. Feminine youth has its
inherent privileges everywhere, but the gentle sway which it exercises
in other civilizations has become almost a sour tyranny here. Was there
ever an American mother who knew anything portrayed in fiction? The
American daughter is commonly presented as a noble-souled, original
creature, whose principal mission in life, next to or incidental to
refusing the man who is not her choice, is to let her own parents
understand what weak, ignorant, foolish, unenlightened persons they
are in comparison with the rising generation--both parents in
some measure, but chiefly and utterly the mother. She is usually
willing to concede that her father has a few glimmering ideas, and
a certain amount of sense--horse business sense, not very elevating
or inspiring--yet something withal. But she looks upon her poor dear
mother as a feeble-minded individual of the first water. What we read
in contemporary fiction in this realistic age is apt to be photographed
from existing conditions. The newly created species of our homes does
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