not always reveal these sentiments in so many words; indeed she is
usually disposed to conceal from her parents as far as possible their
own shortcomings, believing often, with ostrich-like complacency, that
they have no idea what she really thinks of them. Quite frequently late
in life it dawns upon her that they were not such complete imbeciles as
she had adjudged them, and she revises her convictions accordingly. But
often she lives superior to the end.
It would be an excellent thing for the American girl if her eyes could
be definitely opened to the fact that her parents, particularly her
mother, are much more clever than she supposes, and that they are
really her best counsellors. But on the other hand, is not the American
mother herself chiefly responsible for this attitude of loving
contempt and sweet but unfilial condescension on the part of her own
flesh and blood? It sometimes seems as though we had fallen victims to
our reluctance to thwart our children in any way lest we should destroy
their love for us. But is it much preferable to be loved devotedly as
foolish, weak, and amiable old things, than to be feared a little as
individuals capable of exercising authority and having opinions of our
own?
This yielding, self-abnegating tendency on the part of parents,
and consequent filial tyranny, are especially conspicuous in the
case of that arch despot, the summer girl. I admit her fascination
unreservedly, and am willing to concede that she has run the gauntlet
of criticism hurled at her by the effete civilizations with an
unblemished reputation. Though she may have become a little more
conservative and conventional out of deference to good taste, she is
still able to be lost in caves or stranded on islands with any young
man of her acquaintance without bringing a blush to any cheek except
that of the horror-stricken foreigner. But having admitted this, I
am obliged to charge her with trampling on the prostrate form of her
mother from the first of July to the first of October. She does so to
a certain extent the year round, but the summer is the crowning season
of her despotism.
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