While those in charge of them indisputably strive to inculcate every
virtue, the well-to-do American father must remember that his sons
will associate intimately there with many boys whose parents belong to
that frivolous class which is to-day chiefly absorbed in beautiful
establishments, elaborate cookery, and the wholly material vanities
of life, and are out of sympathy with, or are indifferent to, the
earnest temper and views of that already large and intelligent portion
of the community, which views with horror the development among us
of an aristocracy of wealth, which apes and is striving to outdo the
heartless inanities of the Old World. He must remember that a taste for
luxury and sensuous, material aims, even though they be held in check
by youthful devotion to the rites of the church, will prove no less
disastrous, in the long run, to manhood and patriotism, than the lack
of fresh air or a famous foot-ball field.
If, however, the American father chooses to keep his sons at home,
he is bound to do all he can to overcome the physical disadvantages
of city life. Fresh air and suitable exercise can be obtained in the
suburbs of most cities by a little energy and co-operation on the
part of parents. As an instance, in one or two of our leading cities,
clubs of twelve to fifteen boys are sent out three or four afternoons
a week under the charge of an older youth--usually a college or other
student--who, without interfering with their liberty, supervises
their sports, and sees that they are well occupied. On days when the
weather is unsuitable for any kind of game, he will take them to
museums, manufactories, or other places of interest in the vicinity. In
this way some of the watchfulness and discipline which are constantly
operative at a boarding-school, are exercised without injury to home
ties. There is no doubt that, unless parents are vigilant and interest
themselves unremittingly in providing necessary physical advantages,
the boys in a crowded city are likely to be less healthy and vigorous
in body, and perhaps in mind, than those educated at a first-class
boarding-school. It may be, as our cities increase in size, and suburbs
become more difficult of access, that the boarding-school will become
more generally popular; but there is reason to believe that, before it
is recognized as a national institution, sectarian religion will have
ceased to control it, and it will be less imitative of England in its
tone and social attitude. Until then, at least, many a parent will
prefer to keep his boys at home.
_Education._
II.
“Supposing you had four daughters, like Mr. Perkins, what would you do
with them, educationally speaking?” I said to my wife Barbara, by way
of turning my attention to the other sex.
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