Children -- Books and reading; Children's literature -- Bibliography; Children's stories -- Bibliography; Storytelling
QUESTION III: _What are you to do if a child says he does not like
fairy tales_?
This is not an uncommon case. What we have first to determine, under
these circumstances, is whether this dislike springs from a stolid,
prosaic nature, whether it springs from a real inability to visualize
such pictures as the fairy or marvelous element in the story present,
or whether (and this is often the real reason) it is from a fear of
being asked to believe what his judgment resents as untrue, or whether
he thinks it is "grown-up" to reject such pleasure as unworthy of his
years.
In the first case, it is wise to persevere, in hopes of developing the
dormant imagination. If the child resents the apparent want of truth
we can teach him how many-sided truth is, as I suggested in my answer
to the first question. In the other cases, we must try to make it
clear that the delight he may venture to take now will increase, not
decrease, with years; that the more one brings _to_ a thing, in the way
of experience and knowledge, the more one will draw _out_ of it.
Let us take as a concrete example the question of Santa Claus. This
joy has almost disappeared, for we have torn away the last shred of
mystery about the personage by allowing him to be materialized in the
Christmas shops and bazaars.
But the original myth need never have disappeared; the link could
easily have been kept by gradually telling the child that the Santa
Claus they worshiped as a mysterious and invisible power is nothing
but the spirit of charity and kindness that makes us remember others,
and that this spirit often takes the form of material gifts. We can
also lead them a step higher and show them that this spirit of
kindness can do more than provide material things; so that the old
nursery tale has laid a beautiful foundation which need never be
pulled up: we can build upon it and add to it all through our lives.
Is not _one_ of the reasons that children reject fairy tales this,
that such very _poor_ material is offered them? There is a dreary
flatness about all except the very best which revolts the child of
literary appreciation and would fail to strike a spark in the
more prosaic.
QUESTION IV: _Do I recommend learning a story by heart, or telling
it in one's own words_?
This would largely depend on the kind of story. If the style is
classic or if the interest of the story is closely connected with the
style, as in Andersen, Kipling or Stevenson, then it is better to
commit it absolutely to memory. But if this process should take too
long (I mean for those who cannot afford the time to specialize), or
if it produces a stilted effect, then it is wiser to read the story
many times over, let it soak in, taking notes of certain passages
which would add to the dramatic interest of the story, and not trouble
about the word accuracy of the whole.
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