The book of the child: An attempt to set down what is in the mind of childrenHow, F. D. (Frederick Douglas)
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The book of the child: An attempt to set down what is in the mind of children
How, F. D. (Frederick Douglas)
Child psychology
Possessed as they are of such great powers of imagination in many
directions it is curious to notice how often children seem unable
to realise or picture to themselves matters with which they will be
familiar enough in after life. Take, for instance, the subject of
death. A child will imagine the death of a doll. This is a fancy that
occurs rarely, and the imagination goes as a rule no further. A child
does not picture to itself the sorrow and loss commonly caused by the
death of a real person. A little girl of three years old was sitting
on her godfather’s knee. There was an immense affection between the
two, and either would have missed the other sadly. An old man in
the village known by sight to the little girl had lately died, and
she had just remarked to her godfather quite as a bit of cheerful
gossip, “Old John is dead.” The conversation then turned upon a
certain gold watch which the little maiden desired more than anything
in the world. Once more she was told, “No, I really can’t give it
to you; I want it so badly myself.” Then followed these apparently
callous words. “Your hair is _rather_ white like old John’s. I s’pect
you will be dead soon. Then can I have the watch?”
At first sight this sounds heartless and calculating, but as a matter
of fact it was certainly not the former. The subject of death was too
big for her imagination, that was all.
[Sidenote: Small Imagination of Suffering.]
In this same connection it is found that pain as affecting others
is often very slightly realised by children, and they seem to be
unable to imagine suffering such as has not come within their own
experience. It is for this reason that little children often inflict
tortures on animals, especially on flies and other small creatures
which are at their mercy. It is not from a love of cruelty as some
people have said, but simply because their imagination falls short in
this direction, and they do not realise the effects of their actions.
But, with certain exceptions, a child has invariably an immense
capability for imagining. As has been stated, the most vivid fancies
seem to spring up unbidden, but it is equally true that it is
possible in a large degree to influence the _kind_ of imagination.
Happiness is an essential atmosphere for the upbringing of a child,
and happiness is to a large extent dependent in childhood upon
imagination. By supplying this atmosphere the best kind of imaginings
can be ensured.
[Sidenote: Parental Sympathy.]
A child whose parents are occupied entirely with themselves and their
own affairs and have no sympathy with childish fancies will shrink
up into itself and have a stunted mental and spiritual growth: the
terrified child will grow up amid horrible imaginings; it is only the
child to whom gentleness and sympathy are as the very air it breathes
who will imagine happy and beautiful things, and live to enjoy the
fulfilment of them here and hereafter.
[Sidenote: Poetic Imaginings.]
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