The book of the child: An attempt to set down what is in the mind of childrenHow, F. D. (Frederick Douglas)
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The book of the child: An attempt to set down what is in the mind of children
How, F. D. (Frederick Douglas)
Child psychology
The next point to be noticed in dealing with the religion of children
is the vexed question as to the wisdom of enforcing attendance at
public worship. There can be no doubt at all that, if overdone,
compulsory churchgoing may lead to disastrous results. A man to
whom frequent attendance at services has all his life been irksome,
looks back to his childhood when he was expected to be present at
Sunday services, week-day services, Sunday School, choir practices,
missionary and other meetings, until he became weary of the very
name of such things. Rather nervous of blame, he never ventured to
express a wish to absent himself, and to those early days and their
discipline he ascribes his present reluctance.
[Sidenote: Danger of Too Little.]
On the other hand, it is no doubt true that it is dangerous to use no
compulsion, and to allow the formation of a habit of staying away
from church on the smallest excuse. The real difficulty is to steer
a course between making Sunday the dull, cold, miserable day that it
too frequently became in the earlier part of the last century and
allowing it to be as secular as it so often is at present.
A lady who has been specially successful in bringing up her children
to love Sunday and its observances, says, “I make a point of extra
nice clothes and nice food on Sundays (it sounds horribly material!)
but I want to make _everything_ connected with goodness and religion
attractive, and, however much we may wish they were not so, our souls
and bodies affect each other in an extraordinary way. My youngest
child of five and a half, having begun Churchgoing regularly six
months ago, begs to stay on through the whole service, only saying
at the end, ‘What a lot of kneeling! But I like it; can I stay
again?’ Of course, there were two reasons for his wish: his love of
being near me, and the music which he also loves.”
[Sidenote: A Service Held by Children.]
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