The book of the child: An attempt to set down what is in the mind of childrenHow, F. D. (Frederick Douglas)
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The book of the child: An attempt to set down what is in the mind of children
How, F. D. (Frederick Douglas)
Child psychology
[Sidenote: The Office of Christian Parents.]
There exists a treatise printed by Cantrell Legge, printer to
the University of Cambridge, in the year 1616, with the title
“The Office of Christian Parents, showing how Children are to be
governed throughout all ages and times of their life. With a brief
Admonitorie addition unto children to answer in dutie to their
Parents’ office.”
[Sidenote: Personal Care of the Mother.]
[Sidenote: Possible Extinction of Boarding Schools.]
The writer, whoever he may have been, appears to have at that very
early date grasped the importance of his subject, for he says, “The
Parent is put in trust to governe the chiefest creature under heaven,
to train up that which is called the Generation of God.” Being thus
impressed with the value of children, it is natural to find the
author of the treatise giving advice that is being more and more
strongly urged upon parents at the present day. Eminent doctors
insist upon the advantage to infants of being personally cared for
by the mother, and not handed over wholesale to a nurse. Educational
experts are more and more inclined to take the view that children
should be kept at home as long as possible. So far, indeed, has this
theory advanced that there is a suggestion of the ultimate extinction
of our great public boarding schools in favour of a larger number of
schools so situated that children may attend them as day scholars
while still living at home under parental care and influence.
[Sidenote: Interference of the Grandmother.]
The old writer of 1616 made a strong point of the child being cared
for by its parents from birth onwards. He (possibly from personal
experience) did not even approve of the interference of the
grandmother, for he quaintly observes, “In some places there comes in
the child-wive’s mother. She will not have her daughter troubled with
the noursing: and the Father cannot abide the crying of the child:
therefore a nurse is sent for in all hast”—a course of action of
which he entirely disapproves.
When the child is a little older he still thinks that its committal
to the care of a servant should be avoided.
“When a child beginneth to know his mother from another, there
groweth two absurdities, either the mother’s fondness maketh it a
crying child and restless, or els her careless committing it to a
servant spills it.”
[Sidenote: The Spoiling of Children.]
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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