The book of the child: An attempt to set down what is in the mind of childrenHow, F. D. (Frederick Douglas)
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The book of the child: An attempt to set down what is in the mind of children
How, F. D. (Frederick Douglas)
Child psychology
So it is with children. Nothing is more sad than to see a child, at
an age when his or her natural freshness and simplicity should be
most clearly in evidence, already cramped and artificial through
an effort to copy some older person. A gentleman once took shelter
in a house during a heavy storm. The master and mistress were both
out, but their little daughter was summoned from her A B C to talk
to the unexpected guest. He told her he was sorry to have brought
her downstairs, to which came the simpering reply, “Oh! pray don’t
mention it!” _Imitatio ad nauseam!_
[Sidenote: Dressing Up.]
[Sidenote: Dumb Crambo.]
One way in which the love of imitation comes out is in the delight
all children take in “dressing up,” and in any form of charades
or dumb crambo. This is probably a very useful way of developing
originality and of setting children’s wits to work. Where it is not
coupled with the putting on of gorgeous raiment, and is not merely
an excuse for “showing off,” the very variety of character assumed
ensures its being a wholesome exercise. Dumb crambo is especially
helpful, for in that pastime there is practically no opportunity
for self-glorification, while it tends directly to stimulate the
children’s ingenuity and to kill their self-consciousness.
[Sidenote: Tricks of Posturing.]
All observers of child life have noticed in some little ones an
unhealthy trick of making faces, posturing, or otherwise trying to
attract attention. This is unnatural and should be carefully watched
and eradicated. But it should be remembered that in most cases of
that kind the _cause_ is physical—generally a weakness in the nervous
system—and the child must be dealt with most tenderly though firmly.
On the other hand, many people can recall instances where what may
be described as a true theatrical tendency has shown itself in a
perfectly healthy and charming manner in very young children. No
better example of this can be found than is contained in a little
paper lying under the writer’s hand. To transpose it would be to
spoil the vividness of the story, so it is given here just in its
original form.
[Sidenote: Tea at the Vicarage.]
“I was more or less of a newcomer in our village when I one day
received a pressing invitation to tea at the Vicarage. When I arrived
I found my hostess, a charming white-haired and white-shawled old
lady, in her usual arm-chair by the drawing-room fire, and, seeing
the chair on the other side of the hearth empty, I dropped into it
with a delicious feeling of comfort after my walk through the chill
and gloom of a foggy evening. I had not been many minutes installed
when tea was brought in, and the hot cakes which my soul loved were
deposited on the little brass stand inside the fender at my feet.
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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