The book of the child: An attempt to set down what is in the mind of childrenHow, F. D. (Frederick Douglas)
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The book of the child: An attempt to set down what is in the mind of children
How, F. D. (Frederick Douglas)
Child psychology
There can be no doubt that the more natural the employment or
amusement the greater the pleasure. A little girl is given a tiny
dustpan and allowed to sweep the carpet, or she has a drawer full of
odds and ends and is asked to sort and arrange them. She will spend
an entire morning in such an occupation with the keenest pleasure,
and if anyone who has watched her should also see her when dressed up
at some “smart” party that same evening there would be no doubt in
the mind of the onlooker as to which brought most real happiness to
the child.
[Sidenote: Story-telling.]
One of the greatest delights that can be afforded to children must
come in for a word of mention. Who does not remember the story-teller
of his or her childhood? Perhaps it was “father,” who when he came
in at tea time would let the whole family swarm on and about his
arm-chair, and would tell another bit of the thrilling tale which
he always broke off each evening at the very most exciting point.
Or sometimes it would be one of the bigger children, gifted with an
extraordinary power of calling up robbers and demons, who enthralled
an audience by the narration of horrors which stimulated their
imagination and made them feel deliciously “creepy.” No such things
as “chestnuts” exist for children. The oftener the story has been
told the better they like it, and never hesitate to choose an old
favourite before a brand new tale.
But this chapter is already becoming too long. It would be easy to
enumerate numberless simple amusements which bring real pleasure to
children. But the same moral can be drawn in every case. The simpler
and more natural the occupation the greater the pleasure. Do not
all children revel in playing with the earth and water that lie
about their feet? Whether they are the lucky ones who can build sand
castles and let the sea-water fill the moats, or whether they can
only play in the gutter by their door, they are ten times happier
in such pleasures as these than in any grander or more elaborate
amusements. To the recognition of this fact those who plan children’s
pleasures will owe their chief success.
CHAPTER VII
THE CHILD—ITS PATHOS
Just as there is no summer without its cool grey days, so among the
sunny crowd of children about our path there is here and there a
child who seems to live beneath a shadow.
[Sidenote: Quiet Children.]
Just, too, as the tender colouring of the grey landscape has a
special charm which only needs the seeking, so these quiet little
ones amply repay the observation of those who do not let them steal
away and escape notice as they always wish to do.
No one who cares for children can have failed to have come in contact
with some who are silent when their comrades shout, grave when the
rest are laughing, and look wistfully on when games are in progress.
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