The Book of the CourtierCastiglione, Baldassarre, conte
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The Book of the Courtier
Castiglione, Baldassarre, conte
Courtesy -- Early works to 1800; Courts and courtiers -- Early works to 1800
“This premise being admitted then,—and it is most true,—I say that the
contrary happens to those who are of maturer age. For if such as these
(when the soul is already less weighed down by bodily heaviness and when
the natural heat begins to become tepid) are inflamed by beauty and turn
thereto a desire guided by rational choice,—they are not deceived, and
possess beauty perfectly. Therefore their possession of it always brings
them good; because beauty is good, and hence true love of beauty is most
good and holy, and always works for good in the mind of those who
restrain the perversity of sense with the bridle of reason; which the
old can do much more easily than the young.
54.—“Hence it is not beyond reason to say further that the old can love
without blame and more happily than the young; taking this word old,
however, not in the sense of decrepit, nor when the bodily organs have
already become so weak that the soul cannot perform its functions
through them, but when our knowledge is at its true prime.
“I will not refrain from saying also this: which is, that I think that
although sensual love is evil at every age, yet in the young it deserves
excuse, and is perhaps in a measure permitted. For although it gives
them anguish, dangers, toils, and those woes that have been told, still
there are many who, to win the favour of the ladies of their love, do
worthy acts, which (although not directed to a good end) are
intrinsically good; and thus from that mass of bitterness they extract a
little sweet, and through the adversities which they endure they at last
perceive their errour. Hence, just as I deem those youths divine who
control their appetites and love in reason, so I excuse those who allow
themselves to be overcome by sensual love, to which they are so strongly
inclined by human frailty: provided they show therein gentleness,
courtesy and worth, and the other noble qualities of which these
gentlemen have told; and provided that when they are no longer of
youthful age, they abandon it altogether, shunning this sensual desire
as it were the lowest round of the ladder by which true love can be
attained. But if, even after they are old, they preserve the fire of
appetite in their chill heart and subject stout reason to frail sense,
it is not possible to say how much they are to be blamed. For like fools
they deserve to be numbered with perpetual infamy among the unreasoning
animals, since the thoughts and ways of sensual love are too unbecoming
to mature age.”
55.—Here Bembo paused a little, as if to rest; and as everyone remained
silent, my lord Morello da Ortona said:
“And if an old man were found more vigourous and sturdy and of better
looks than many youths, why would you not have him allowed to love with
that love wherewith young men love?”
My lady Duchess laughed, and said:
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