There was no lack of personal—and professing—-friends to stand more or
less loyally beside the father in that time, but their support was
wormwood to him. From the very few who were altogether sincere he turned
in aversion even as he suffered their commendations, while for the
insincere and sycophantic he had a doubly unspeakable contempt; and that
disgust and scorn was agony, for that he must swallow it and belie his
own spirit as he listened to these friends.
His private correspondence furnished him as little comfort. Some
persons there were—and a few of these men and women of repute—who wrote
to him letters that should have been consoling, for they agreed very
heartily with his view, or what they thought was his view, and commended
him without stint for his attitude: but never an one spoke of the
sacrificial love of a father for his daughter—_justice to the negro_ was
their theme. Upon such letters from men—it would have surprised the
writers much to hear it—he uttered maledictions profane; while, for the
one woman who thus approved him, he forebore profanity, but relieved his
wrath with a volcanic "Freak!"
From the time the announcement burst upon the public the President was
overwhelmed with a flood of newspaper comment, most of it harsh, the
best of it deprecatingly sympathetic, none, except that from negro
papers, uncritical. Very shortly the clippings bureau which served him
was ordered to discontinue everything referring to Mrs. Hayward Graham’s
marriage.
Mr. Phillips did not give that order because he was too weak to stand
criticism. Far from it. He was schooled to conflict, and knew the
rules. He had never asked concession from an opponent in all his life
of struggle, and he would have scorned to ask it then, even with the
uncounted odds against him. His critics might have shrieked till the
crack o’ doom and he would have listened without a quiver of his
resolution.
But the impartial bureau had sent, among an avalanche of criticism, an
appreciation in the form of the following editorial clipped from the
columns of _The Star of Zion_:
"The dramatic culmination of the beautiful romance in which Miss Helen
Phillips, daughter of the President of the United States, proudly
proclaims herself the wife of Mr. John Hayward Graham, and the graceful
acquiescence of the bride’s distinguished father in his beautiful
daughter’s love-match, is but another proof of the rapid coming of the
negro race into its own as the recognized equal of any race of men on
earth. Mr. Graham’s career is an inspiration to his people, for it
teaches the rising generation of negro boys and girls that they need no
longer live Within the Veil, that in the most enlightened minds there is
no longer a silly prejudice against colour, but that if the young negro
will only make the most of himself and his opportunities he will be
graciously received as an equal, as a member, in the proudest families
in this mighty nation.—"
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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