The Catholic World, Vol. 19, April 1874‐September 1874Various
Religion
The Catholic World, Vol. 19, April 1874‐September 1874
Various
Catholic Church -- Periodicals
miss the golden opportunity on which hang the hopes of his friend’s whole
future. In the centre of the dance, the tall form of a Life‐guardsman is
prominent; to‐morrow he will have disappeared from the world, and only his
intimates will know that he had long determined to enter a Catholic
seminary, and study for the priesthood. He did not want his decision
discussed beforehand, and took the best means of silencing curiosity by
appearing the gayest of the gay. Every one here to‐night has a long record
oppressing his heart—something that makes the present scene quite
secondary in his thoughts, and that causes in his breast a bitter feeling
of reaction against the mockery of which he forms a part. And this is the
thing called pleasure! How little we know of the people with whom we spend
our lives—those that touch our hands daily, and speak to us commonplace
words of courtesy! Surely the bees in their hive, the ants on their hill,
the beavers and prairie‐dogs of a “village,” know each other better than
we do our next‐door neighbors! We cut the thread of a guilty reverie by
some observation about the weather, or we laugh the unmeaning laugh that
supplies the place of an answer, perhaps inconvenient to ourselves, and
this laugh jars on the tenderest memories of a sorrowful past uppermost
just then in our neighbor’s mind. There is something appalling in all
this—the tragedy lies so near the surface, and we tread upon it so often!
The trivial aspect of society is oftener still before us—the inanity of
morning calls, the gossip of a provincial town, the petty local interests
that absorb three‐fourths of mankind. Why, we wonder, should general
conversation invariably breed gossip, while a _tête‐à‐tête_ sometimes
elicits real information and rational interchange of ideas? The same
person who in a company of five or six has nothing but commonplace remarks
to offer, often opens out in private though yet only ceremonial
conversation, and startles you by original opinions and valuable
suggestions. The French are perhaps the only people who shine in mixed
conversation; they have the talent of _causerie_—a thing that with us
hardly exists; the very word is untranslatable. A Frenchwoman can be
sparkling where we can only be dull; she can dance on a cobweb, while we
should break down on a cart‐rope. Gallic vivacity can make even the
details of the kitchen amusing, while we should be insufferably prosy on
the same subject.
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