“A man having a daughter of thirteen or fourteen years of age,” says
Mr. Smith in his description of the marriage customs in vogue among the
Victorian tribes, “arranges with some elderly person for the disposal
of her; and, when all are agreed, she is brought out and told that her
husband wants her. Perhaps she has never seen him but to loathe him.
The father carries a spear and a waddy, or tomahawk, and, anticipating
resistance, is thus prepared for it. The poor girl, sobbing and
sighing, and muttering words of complaint, claims pity from those who
will show none. If she resists the mandates of her father, he strikes
her with his spear; if she rebels and screams, the blows are repeated;
and if she attempts to run away, a stroke on the head from the waddy
or tomahawk quiets her. The mother screams and scolds and beats the
ground with her _kan-nan_ (fighting-stick); the dogs bark and whine;
but nothing interrupts the father, who, in the performance of his
duty, is strict and mindful of the necessity of not only enforcing his
authority, but of showing to all that he has the means to enforce it.
Seizing the bride by her long hair he drags her to the home prepared
for her by her new owner. Further resistance often subjects her to
brutal treatment. If she attempts to abscond, the bridegroom does not
hesitate to strike her savagely on the head with his waddy, and the
bridal screams and yells make the night hideous.”[35]
CHAPTER III
THE KILLING OF TWINS—OTHER EXCUSES FOR
INFANTICIDE—RESTRICTING THE FAMILY—ECONOMIC REASONS
ACKNOWLEDGED—DYING OF DESPAIR.
It has seemed necessary to dwell thus at length on the conditions
among the Papuans and allied tribes as it appeared to me important
that the very beginnings of the family should be understood. The
general agreement of ethnologists as to the low standing of the Papuans
justifies, I believe, our assuming them to be as near the point of
culture of our neolithic (or paleolithic) ancestors as it is possible
to come.
From now on the course is upward. Strange as it may seem, the lowest
tribes are less “human,” both in the matter of offspring and in the
matter of sentiment of love for women, than some of the beasts and
birds,[36] but having touched that depth, the next step brings us in
contact with feelings that, in a way, begin to approximate our own.
In the stages above the Papuans there is some affection for the woman;
her position is nearer to that of wife and less that of captive. In
consequence there is a more kindly regard for the children that she
bears. Now begins the development of the parental _affection_. It is,
however, confined to the female at first; “to this fact, rather than to
doubt of paternity, should we attribute the very common habit in such
communities of reckoning ancestry in the female line only.”[37]
Man, no longer relying on his own cannibalistic brute force to do with
his progeny as he wishes, invents reasons for doing away with his
burdensome offspring.
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