The Child in the Midst: A Comparative Study of Child Welfare in Christian and Non-Christian LandsPlatt, Mary Schauffler
Religion
The Child in the Midst: A Comparative Study of Child Welfare in Christian and Non-Christian Lands
Platt, Mary Schauffler
Church work with children; Missions
Of real discipline,--punishment administered in love, not in anger,
for the purpose of teaching great life principles, I have yet to
discover a trace in homes untouched by the love of Christ in the lands
of which we are speaking. Love there is, and how often the unexpressed
yearning of the mother heart finds utterance at last when she comes
into contact with a mother who _knows_ of these things. A young
missionary mother from China told me about a pleasant gathering of
women in her parlor after her youngest baby was born. One woman said
to her, “I wish I knew what to do when my children are naughty. I have
no plan.” The poor woman was nursing her fourth baby, and worn by
wakeful nights and constant nursing was in no condition, physically,
mentally, or morally, to rule wisely her mischievous, disobedient,
crying children.
[Sidenote: Miss Holliday on child training in Persia.]
From the vast amount of interesting information which our missionaries
are glad to share with us the moment this subject is broached, it is
difficult to select something for the limited space in this chapter.
In this as in other instances, the intention is rather to whet the
appetite for more, than to make an exhaustive study of the subject.
Miss G. Y. Holliday of Persia says,--
I find children passionately longed for, much loved, though not at
all wisely; often the tyrants of the household. It is a sad
commentary on the depravity of human nature, that no matter what
outrage a child commits or how abominable his conduct may be, it
is considered an all-sufficient excuse to say, “He is a child,” as
if there were no such things as good and well behaved children,
and nothing else was to be expected but disorder and disobedience
from them. The atmosphere of a Moslem home is so bad for them,
with the continual swearing and vile language. I was talking one
day to a small boy, the idol of his grandparents, with whom he
spends most of his time. The subject was family discipline; I
said, “Parents sometimes find it necessary to punish the
children.” He replied with emphasis, his eyes opening wider and
wider, “Yes, parents whip, they kick, they strike.”
[Sidenote: Lack of innocence coupled with appalling ignorance.]
One of the most terrible results to children of the lack of proper
home life and training is loss of innocence coupled with appalling
ignorance. This condition existing also in our own land is being faced
in these days with new purpose and determination by earnest,
conscientious men and women who are seeking in many ways to find and
apply a remedy. From the many strong, true writers and speakers on
this subject we select a few words written by Professor E. P. St.
John of the Hartford School of Religious Pedagogy.
[Sidenote: Prof. St. John on sex knowledge.]
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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