The Child in the Midst: A Comparative Study of Child Welfare in Christian and Non-Christian LandsPlatt, Mary Schauffler
Religion
The Child in the Midst: A Comparative Study of Child Welfare in Christian and Non-Christian Lands
Platt, Mary Schauffler
Church work with children; Missions
The position of the husband and father in most non-Christian lands is
that of supreme ruler and despot in his home. In many cases he has
the power of life and death over his children, during infancy at
least, and where polygamy exists many a wife has suddenly disappeared,
never to be heard of again; but no one thinks of questioning the
rights of the husband in the matter. His attitude toward the mothers
of his children is the “sample copy” for his boys to imitate, and
right faithfully do they follow his example.
[Sidenote: An Egyptian father.]
In the native quarter of Alexandria, Egypt, I saw a little boy who
was very fond of making mud-pies in front of the house. One
afternoon his mother stepped into the doorway and called:
“Come in, darling; don’t get your clothes so dirty. Come in,
sweet one.” No answer from the four-year-old.
The mother stepped into the road, looking about to see that there
were no men near to watch her, and laid a kind motherly hand on
the child to take him into the house.
“Come, little one. I will give you sweets; come!”
Her husband at that moment came around the next corner, and stood
still to see what would happen. The child turned on his mother,
and, doubling up his little dirty fist, he beat her right in the
face, and snarled, “Bint el kelb!” (Daughter of a dog), tearing
himself loose.
The father stepped up, and, in place of giving the little
scoundrel a thrashing, he patted his son on the back, smiled upon
him, and said: “Brave little fellow! Thou magnificent little
fellow!” Proud of the son who could treat a woman thus![20]
[Sidenote: An African father.]
[Sidenote: Fathers transformed by Christianity.]
Through the jungle of Africa strides the man carrying his pipe and a
big hunting knife; after him comes his wife with a baby slung at her
side, stooping under the great pack on her back, to lighten which he
will not lift his little finger. Oh! it is a sight to make angels
rejoice when the grace of God touches the heart, and manliness and
chivalry are aroused in him who had all his life seemed absolutely
callous to the needs and sufferings of those dependent on him! In a
Persian village where a missionary lady was touring, a man came to
evening prayers and slipped a note into her hand that read, “Receive
M. B. with love,--he is a brother.” Several years later she again
visited the village, but though she had no opportunity to talk with M.
B. she saw something that spoke louder and more forcibly than a dozen
conversations would have done. When he was ready to go home from the
meeting in the missionary’s rooms, he said to his wife, “Give me the
child,” and took the heavy, sleeping boy out of her arms. In all her
long years of work among Mohammedans this missionary had never seen a
Mohammedan man do such a thing.
[Illustration: MOTHER AND CHILD IN EGYPT]
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