The Child in the Midst: A Comparative Study of Child Welfare in Christian and Non-Christian Lands — John Shaqi
The Child in the Midst: A Comparative Study of Child Welfare in Christian and Non-Christian LandsPlatt, Mary Schauffler
Religion
The Child in the Midst: A Comparative Study of Child Welfare in Christian and Non-Christian Lands
Platt, Mary Schauffler
Church work with children; Missions
Is it a mistake in this study of child life to pay so much attention
to the subjects of fatherhood and motherhood? Nowhere can we find the
real remedy for the evils that degrade and debase and oppress and
crush the sweet innocence and dependence of childhood unless we go
back of the child to the very foundations of family life. Many great
authorities in America and Europe, as well as those who have labored
and studied in Oriental lands, will testify to the truth of this
statement. Rev. J. Sadler of Amoy says, “You would be profoundly
impressed if you could realize how the strength of heathenism is in
the women. From earliest years they teach their children concerning
demons, and to be early eager as to inheritance, and thus inspire
selfish and quarrelsome ideas leading to divisions and life-long
conflicts. The importance of women’s work cannot be estimated. The
destiny of the country is largely in their hands.”[21]
[Sidenote: Training Christian wives and mothers.]
This is one side of the picture. The other is equally true. Dr. Daniel
McGilvary, for half a century a missionary among the Siamese and Lao,
tells of the wonderful result of a school for girls that provides
Christian wives and mothers.
Notwithstanding our disappointment in the delay of the school for
boys, it proved a wise arrangement that the girls’ school was
started first. A mission church is sure to be greatly handicapped
whose young men must either remain single,--which they will not
do,--or be compelled to take ignorant non-Christian wives....
After marriage the almost universal custom of the country has been
that the husband lives with the wife’s family.... Where all the
atmosphere of the family is strongly Buddhist, with daily
offerings to the spirits and gala days at the temple, the current
would be too strong for a father, with his secondary place in the
family, to withstand. For a while it was feared that Christian
girls would have difficulty in finding husbands. But, on the
contrary, our educated girls become not only more intelligent, but
more attractive in manners, dress, and character; and therefore,
have been much sought after. The homes become Christian homes, and
the children are reared in a Christian atmosphere. The result is
that, instead of the wife’s dragging the husband down, she
generally raises the husband up; and, as a general rule, the
children early become Christians.[22]
The Mohammedan girl educated in a Christian school, even though she
must marry and live her life according to Mohammedan customs, takes
with her to her father-in-law’s home new ideas and customs that are
going far to break down the old walls of prejudice. Mrs. C. M. Wherry
of India writes:--
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