The Childhood of Distinguished WomenBower, Selina A.
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The Childhood of Distinguished Women
Bower, Selina A.
Women -- Biography
Her father's name was John Gurney; her mother, whose maiden name was
Bell, was a lineal descendant of Robert Barclay, the Apologist of the
Quakers.
The Gurneys of Norwich trace their family back to the days of William
Rufus, if not to the times of William the Conqueror.
Elizabeth was one of twelve children, and the third daughter in this
large family of Quakers.
When she was four years old, her parents removed from the city to the
beautiful estate of Earlham, where her childhood passed away in much
worldliness and gaiety, for the Quakers of this period were extremely
lax in carrying out their peculiarities.
Earlham Hall is scarcely two miles from Norwich, and is a stately
mansion surrounded by a lovely park, the river Wensum adding its charms
to the scenery by its graceful windings in the vicinity. It was here,
surrounded by luxury, beauty, and profusion, that the child played; and
the old Hall was her bright, glad home.
Her mother seems to have been very fond of Elizabeth, and in writing
about her, remarks:--"My dear little Betsey never offends, and is, in
every sense of the word, truly engaging."
This may have been maternal partiality, for whilst a mere child, she was
somewhat obstinate in disposition, and averse to study. It is even
stated that she was thought a very dull child as to lessons, but this
was probably because she had a great dislike to routine; and preferred a
ride on horseback, a merry dance--for she was particularly fond of
dancing--or a song with her sister Rachel, with whom she sang duets
well.
However, Elizabeth evidently made progress in accomplishments, and was
taught drawing, as well as music and dancing.
The young girl was naturally extremely nervous and sensitive; when only
seven years old, she would quietly watch her mother when asleep, with a
terrible dread that that beloved mother should not wake again. Or at
times the wish would come into her heart, that the walls might close
upon herself, and her dear parents, brothers, and sisters, and bury them
in one grave together, rather than that she should ever have to suffer
separation from them.
When her mother died, Elizabeth was a fair-haired, sweet-looking child
of twelve, with soft blue eyes, and a silvery attractive voice, which in
later life told the beautiful story of the love and life of Jesus, with
wonderful influence, to the poor degraded outcasts in prison. One poor
woman, on hearing her read, said, "Hush! the angels have lent her their
voices!"
After the mother's death, the father and friends remained as gay as
before, and an almost sceptical tendency crept over the family. With
Elizabeth's nervous disposition, a dread of death was inevitable; she
frequently alluded to it, calling it "This wonderful death," and in her
diary she complains of dark restlessness of mind, and some disbelief in
the truths of the Bible.
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