The Christian Home: As it is in the Sphere of Nature and the Church; Showing the Mission, Duties, Influences, Habits, and Responsibilities of Home, its Education, Government, and Discipline; with Hints on "Match Making," and the Relation of Parents to the Marriage Choice of their Children; together with a consideration of the Tests in the Selection of a Companion, Etc.Philips, Samuel
Religion
The Christian Home: As it is in the Sphere of Nature and the Church; Showing the Mission, Duties, Influences, Habits, and Responsibilities of Home, its Education, Government, and Discipline; with Hints on "Match Making," and the Relation of Parents to the Marriage Choice of their Children; together with a consideration of the Tests in the Selection of a Companion, Etc.
Philips, Samuel
Family; Home; Marriage; Parent and child
The social position of the child should also be considered. If possible,
the character of his pursuits should not conflict with those social
elements in which he has been reared up. It should not detract from his
standing in society, nor disrupt his associations in life. Many parents,
for the sake of money, will refuse to educate and fit their children for
sustaining the position they hold in society. They bring them up in
ignorance, and devote them exclusively to Mammon; and then when thrown
upon their own resources they are qualified neither in manners nor in
pursuit for a continuance in those peculiar relations to society which they
at first sustained.
The exigencies of the child should also be considered. If his home can
afford him no patrimony, it is then more important to consider the
lucrative character of the pursuit chosen, and also the demands of that
social position he is to maintain in life. Its profits should then be fully
adequate to these demands, and suited to the emergencies which are peculiar
to his circumstances. The capital required to engage in it, and its bearing
upon the health of body and mind, should also be regarded. This is an
important consideration, and not sufficiently attended to by parents. How
many children are forced into employments which they have not the means of
carrying on, and for which their state of health altogether unfits them! A
pursuit involving sedentary habits does not suit a child whose state of
health demands exercise.
You should make choice of but one pursuit for your child, and discourage in
him the American tendency to be "jack of all trades." One occupation,
whatever it may be, whether trade or profession, if properly pursued, will
demand all his energies, and give him no time to follow another; and
besides, it will afford him an ample subsistence. There is much truth in
the two old and quaint adages, "jack of all trades, and master of none;"
"he has too many irons in the fire,--some of them must burn!" Show your
children the truth and application of these.
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