The Christian Home: As it is in the Sphere of Nature and the Church; Showing the Mission, Duties, Influences, Habits, and Responsibilities of Home, its Education, Government, and Discipline; with Hints on "Match Making," and the Relation of Parents to the Marriage Choice of their Children; together with a consideration of the Tests in the Selection of a Companion, Etc.Philips, Samuel
Religion
The Christian Home: As it is in the Sphere of Nature and the Church; Showing the Mission, Duties, Influences, Habits, and Responsibilities of Home, its Education, Government, and Discipline; with Hints on "Match Making," and the Relation of Parents to the Marriage Choice of their Children; together with a consideration of the Tests in the Selection of a Companion, Etc.
Philips, Samuel
Family; Home; Marriage; Parent and child
The violation of this law does great injury to the child and to society,
inasmuch as it prevents his success and contentment, and floods the state
with quacks and humbuggery. The parent should never compel the child to
learn a trade or profession which he dislikes, and for which he shows no
talents. Many parents, through a false pride, force their children into a
profession for which they have neither inclination nor capacity. While the
parent has a right to interfere in the choice of a pursuit, his
interference should not be arbitrary, neither should it run counter to the
will of the child unless for special moral and religious reasons, or on
account of inability to gratify him. However, this is often done. Even
though they acknowledge their unfitness for a profession, yet their
misguided pride prompts them to drag their children into a calling which in
after life they disgrace.
Some parents, on the other hand, through a penurious spirit, refuse to aid
their sons in their preparation for a profession for which their talents
eminently qualify them. They refuse to educate their sons for the ministry
because it is not a lucrative calling, though they give evidence of both
mental and moral adaptation for that holy office. Others, through a blind
zeal and a false pride, force their sons into this sacred calling. Mistaken
parents! rather let your children break stone upon the road, or dig in the
earth, yea, rather let them beg their bread, than thrust them into an
occupation to which God has not called them, and for which they have
neither inclination nor talents, and in which they would, perhaps, not only
ruin their own souls, but contribute to the damnation of others. "There are
diversities of gifts and of operations." All are not called nor fitted for
the ministry. Children soon give indications of specific talents and
suitableness for a calling in life. We should critically observe their
early propensities. These will indicate their peculiar talents. Unfit for
and disliking an occupation, they will become unsettled, and dissatisfied,
and at best will be but mimics and quacks. Their business will make them
sullen slaves. It is because of parental disobedience to this law of
adaptation that we have so much humbuggery in the world at the present day.
Study, therefore, the infantile predilections of your children to
particular employments. These will be an index to their providential
calling, and should govern your choice for them.
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