The Christian Home: As it is in the Sphere of Nature and the Church; Showing the Mission, Duties, Influences, Habits, and Responsibilities of Home, its Education, Government, and Discipline; with Hints on "Match Making," and the Relation of Parents to the Marriage Choice of their Children; together with a consideration of the Tests in the Selection of a Companion, Etc.Philips, Samuel
Religion
The Christian Home: As it is in the Sphere of Nature and the Church; Showing the Mission, Duties, Influences, Habits, and Responsibilities of Home, its Education, Government, and Discipline; with Hints on "Match Making," and the Relation of Parents to the Marriage Choice of their Children; together with a consideration of the Tests in the Selection of a Companion, Etc.
Philips, Samuel
Family; Home; Marriage; Parent and child
It is, therefore, beneath the dignity of the Christian to permit his home
to become in any way a prey to immoral and irreligious associations and
influences. Like the personal character of the Christian, it should be kept
unspotted from the world; and no spirit, no customs, no companions, opposed
to religion, should be permitted to enter its sacred limits. Heedless of
this important requisition, parents may soon see their children depart from
the ways in which they were trained in the nursery, and at last become a
curse to them, and bring down their gray hairs with sorrow to the grave.
Here is indeed the great fault of many Christian parents in the present
day. They do not exert that guardian care they should over the social
relations and interests of their children. They are too unscrupulous in
their introduction to the world, and leave them in ignorance of its snares
and deceptions. What results can they look for if they permit their parlor
tables to become burdened with French novels, and their children to mingle
in company whose influence is the most detrimental to the interests of pure
and undefiled religion? Can they reflect upon their daughters for forming
improper attachments and alliances? Can they wonder if their sons become
desperadoes, and ridicule the religion of their parents? No! They permitted
them to dally with the fangs of a viper which found a ready admittance into
their parlor; and upon them, therefore, will rest the responsibility,--yea,
the deep and eternal curse! Woe unto thee, thou unfaithful parent; the
voice of thy children's blood shall send up from the hallowed ground of
home, one loud and penetrating cry to God for vengeance; and thou shalt be
"beaten with many stripes." It will not only cry out against you, but cling
to you!
Guard your parlor, therefore, from the corrupting influence of all immoral
associations. Be not carried away by the pomp and glare of refined and
decorated wickedness. Let not the ornaments and magnificence of mere
outward life divert your attention from those hidden principles which
prompt to action. In the choice of companions for your children in the
parlor, look to the ornaments of the heart rather than to those of the
body. Be not allured by the parade of circumstance and position in life: Be
not carried away by that which may intoxicate for a moment, and then leave
the heart in more wretchedness than before. Ever remember that the future
condition of your children, their domestic character and happiness, will
depend upon the kind of company you admit in your parlor. This leads us to
the consideration of the part Christian parents should take in the marriage
of their children. This we shall investigate in our next chapter under the
head of "Match-making."
CHAPTER XXIII.
MATCH-MAKING.
SECTION I.
THE RELATION OF PARENTS TO THE MARRIAGE CHOICE OF THEIR CHILDREN.
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