The Christian Home: As it is in the Sphere of Nature and the Church; Showing the Mission, Duties, Influences, Habits, and Responsibilities of Home, its Education, Government, and Discipline; with Hints on "Match Making," and the Relation of Parents to the Marriage Choice of their Children; together with a consideration of the Tests in the Selection of a Companion, Etc.Philips, Samuel
Religion
The Christian Home: As it is in the Sphere of Nature and the Church; Showing the Mission, Duties, Influences, Habits, and Responsibilities of Home, its Education, Government, and Discipline; with Hints on "Match Making," and the Relation of Parents to the Marriage Choice of their Children; together with a consideration of the Tests in the Selection of a Companion, Etc.
Philips, Samuel
Family; Home; Marriage; Parent and child
There is much danger now of the Christian home becoming in this way
slavishly bound to the influence and attractions of society beyond the pale
of the church, until all relish for home-enjoyment is lost, and its members
no longer seek and enjoy each other's association. They drain the cup of
voluptuous pleasure to its dregs, and flee from home as jejune and supine.
The husband leaves his wife, and seeks his company in fashionable saloons,
at the card table or in halls of revelry. The wife leaves the society of
her children, and in company with a bosom companion, seeks to throw off
the tedium of home, at masquerade meetings, at the theater or in the
ball-room, where
"Vice, once by modest Nature chained,
And legal ties, expatiates unrestrained;
Without thin decency held up to view,
Naked she stalks o'er law and gospel too!"
The children follow their example; become disgusted with each other's
company, and sacrifice their time and talents to a thousand little trifles
and absurdities. Taste becomes depraved, and loses all relish for rational
enjoyment. The heart teems with idle fancies and vain imaginations.
Sentimentalism takes the place of religion; filthy literature and
fashionable cards shove the Family Bible in some obscure nook of their
parlor and their hearts. The hours devoted to family prayer are now spent
in a giddy whirl of amusement and intoxicating pleasure, in the study of
the latest fashions and of the newly-published love adventures of some
nabob in the world of refined scoundrelism. The parental solicitude, once
directed to the eternal welfare of the child, is now expended in
match-making and setting out in the world.
Thus does the Christian home often become adulterated with the world by its
indiscriminate association with unfit social elements. That portion of
society whose master-spirits are love-stricken poets, languishing girls,
amorous grandmothers, and sap-headed fiction writers, is certainly unfit
for a place in the parlor of the Christian family. We should not permit the
principles of common-sense decorum to give place to the lawless vagaries of
fancy and the hollow-hearted forms of artificial life. Under the gaudy
drapery of smiles and flounces, of rustling silks and blandishments, there
are hearts as brutish and stultified, and heads as brainless and incapable
of gentle and moral emotion, and characters as selfish and ungenerous, as
were ever concealed beneath the rags of poverty, or the uncouth manners and
rough garb of the incarcerated villain!
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