The Christian Home: As it is in the Sphere of Nature and the Church; Showing the Mission, Duties, Influences, Habits, and Responsibilities of Home, its Education, Government, and Discipline; with Hints on "Match Making," and the Relation of Parents to the Marriage Choice of their Children; together with a consideration of the Tests in the Selection of a Companion, Etc.Philips, Samuel
Religion
The Christian Home: As it is in the Sphere of Nature and the Church; Showing the Mission, Duties, Influences, Habits, and Responsibilities of Home, its Education, Government, and Discipline; with Hints on "Match Making," and the Relation of Parents to the Marriage Choice of their Children; together with a consideration of the Tests in the Selection of a Companion, Etc.
Philips, Samuel
Family; Home; Marriage; Parent and child
Memory links together the loved, ones of home though they be widely
separated from each other, some on earth, and some in eternity. There is a
mystic chain which binds them together, and brings them in spirit near to
each other and infuses, as it were, with electric power, a realizing sense
of each other, while their past life under the same roof, "like shadows
o'er them sweep." In the light of memory their faded forms are vividly
brought back to view; they see each other as when they rambled over their
childhood haunts; and the echo of their playful mirth comes booming back in
deep reverberations through their souls. In this respect the memory of the
dead is a pleasure so deep and delicate, and withal so melancholy, yea, so
painful, that the heart shrinks from its intensity. This we experience when
we ramble through the family graveyard, and bring within the sweep of
recollection our past communion with the loved who slumber there. There is
a mysterious feeling awakened in our hearts,--a feeling of peculiar
melancholy, which, combines two opposite emotions,--that of pleasure and
that of pain. These seem to embrace each other, and their union in our
hearts affords us a strange enjoyment. We enjoy the pain; the agony
awakened by the remembrance of those who lie beneath the sod is pleasing to
us. It is a bitter cup we love to drink; we love to keep open the wounds
there inflicted. The sadness we then feel we dearly cherish; and we linger
around these tombs as if bound to them by some mystic chord we could not
break; we are loth to leave a spot in which are accumulated the fondest
associations of early life. Would the mother, if she could, forget the
child that slumbers beneath the flower-crowned sod of the family cemetery?
"Where," in the beautiful language of Irving, "is the child, that would
willingly forget the most tender of parents, though to remember be but to
lament? Who, even in the hour of agony, would forget the friend over whom
he mourns? Who, even when the tomb is closing upon the remains of her he
most loved and he feels his heart, as it were, crushed in the closing of
its portals, would accept consolation that was to be bought by
forgetfulness? And when the overwhelming burst of grief is calmed into the
gentle tear of recollection, when the sudden anguish and the convulsive
agony over the present ruins of all that we most loved, is softened away
into pensive meditation on all that it was in the days of its loveliness,
who would root out such a sorrow from the heart? Though it may sometimes
throw a passing cloud even over the bright hour of gayety, yet who would
exchange it even for the song of pleasure or the burst of revelry? No;
there is a voice from the tomb sweeter than song; there is a recollection
of the dead to which we turn even from the charms of the living!" How
passionately we cling to those memories of a sainted mother, which crowd in
rapid succession upon our minds!
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