The Christian Home: As it is in the Sphere of Nature and the Church; Showing the Mission, Duties, Influences, Habits, and Responsibilities of Home, its Education, Government, and Discipline; with Hints on "Match Making," and the Relation of Parents to the Marriage Choice of their Children; together with a consideration of the Tests in the Selection of a Companion, Etc.Philips, Samuel
Religion
The Christian Home: As it is in the Sphere of Nature and the Church; Showing the Mission, Duties, Influences, Habits, and Responsibilities of Home, its Education, Government, and Discipline; with Hints on "Match Making," and the Relation of Parents to the Marriage Choice of their Children; together with a consideration of the Tests in the Selection of a Companion, Etc.
Philips, Samuel
Family; Home; Marriage; Parent and child
"Weep not for her! Her memory is the shrine
Of pleasing thoughts, soft as the scent of flowers,
Calm as on windless eve the sun's decline,
Sweet as the song of birds among the bowers."
What a purifying and restraining influence does the memory of a pious
parent's love, exert upon the wayward child! When he bends in mournful
recollection over the grave of a sainted mother, how must every
heart-string break, and with what remorse he reviews his past life of
wickedness and filial disobedience. The memory of that mother's love and
kindness to him, haunts him in all his revels, and draws him back, as if by
magnetic force, from scenes of riot and of ruin. Can he think of that
mother's prayers and teachings and tears of solicitude, and not feel
deeply, and often savingly, his own guilt and ingratitude? If there is a
memory of home-life which allures him to heaven, it is the recollection of
her love and pious efforts to save him.
The child who lives in exile from his country and his home, is soothed in
the midst of his cares and disappointments, by the stirring imagery of his
far-distant friends and home. And oh, if he has been unfaithful to the
ministrations of that home; if he has trodden under foot the proffered love
of his parents, and repulsed all the overtures of their pious solicitude,
will not the memory of their anguish haunt his soul, and plough deep
furrows of remorse in his conscience? The sense of past filial ingratitude,
and the recollection of a parent's injured love and disappointed hope,
constitute one of the most powerful incentives to repentance and
reformation. It was thus with the prodigal son. As soon as he came to
himself, he remembered the dear home of his youth, the kind love of his
father, and his own unworthiness and ingratitude; and this brought him to
repentance and to the resolution to return to his father, confess his sin,
and seek pardon. How many now, in thus looking back upon the home of their
childhood, do not remember their abuse of parental love and kindness!
"Oh! in our stern manhood, when no ray
Of earlier sunshine glimmers on our way;
When girt with sin and sorrow, and the toil
Of cares, which tear the bosom that they soil;
Oh! if there be in retrospection's chain
One link that knits us with young dreams again--
One thought so sweet we scarcely dare to muse
On all the hoarded raptures it reviews;
Which seems each instant, in its backward range,
The heart to soften, and its ties to change,
And every spring untouched for years to move,
It is--the memory of a mother's love!"
We see, therefore, that there are painful, as well as pleasant, memories of
home. When the absent disobedient child remembers how he abused the
privileges of the parental home, and brought the gray hairs of his parents
down with sorrow to the grave, and turned that household into a desolation;
when
"Pensive memory lingers o'er
Those scenes to be enjoyed no more,
Those scenes regretted ever,"
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