The Christian Home: As it is in the Sphere of Nature and the Church; Showing the Mission, Duties, Influences, Habits, and Responsibilities of Home, its Education, Government, and Discipline; with Hints on "Match Making," and the Relation of Parents to the Marriage Choice of their Children; together with a consideration of the Tests in the Selection of a Companion, Etc.Philips, Samuel
Religion
The Christian Home: As it is in the Sphere of Nature and the Church; Showing the Mission, Duties, Influences, Habits, and Responsibilities of Home, its Education, Government, and Discipline; with Hints on "Match Making," and the Relation of Parents to the Marriage Choice of their Children; together with a consideration of the Tests in the Selection of a Companion, Etc.
Philips, Samuel
Family; Home; Marriage; Parent and child
The principle of home-sympathy reigns in some degree in every household
whose members have not sunk below the level of the brute. Its nature
demands that it be mutual. It should glow with peculiar warmth in the wife,
the mother, and the sister; because it is a more prominent instinct of
woman. It is an intuition of the mother's heart.
"When pain and anguish wring the brow,
A ministering angel thou!"
Who but she can smooth the pillow and soothe the anguish of the child of
affliction? There is a tenderness in her nature, a softness in her touch, a
lightness in her step, a soothing expression in her face, a tender beam in
her eye, which man can never have, and which eminently fits her for the
lead in home-sympathy. The want of it is a libel upon her sex. It is her
prerogative,--the magic power she wields in the formation and reformation
of character.
But her sympathy should find response in the bosom of her husband, the
father, the brother; for, if true, it must he mutual. Their joys and their
sorrows must be common. Thus heart must answer to heart, and face. "The
cruelty of that man," says J.A. James, "wants a name, and I know of none
sufficiently emphatic, who denies his sympathy to a suffering woman, whose
only sin is a broken constitution, and whose calamity is the result of her
marriage." Without such mutual sympathy, the members of the family would be
cold and repulsive, and society would be deprived of its most lovely
attributes; its members would lose the connecting link which brings them
together, and its entire fabric would fall to pieces and degenerate into
barbaric individualism.
"Had earth no sympathy, no tears would flow,
In heart-felt sorrow, for another's woe;
The joyous spirit then would weary roam,
A stranger to the dear delights of home."
We shall now consider briefly the religious elements of home-sympathy.
These involve harmony of the spiritual affections, and a transfer to all
the members, of the religious experience and enjoyment of each. As natural
sympathy arises out of and is measured by natural affection, so spiritual
sympathy is the product of faith and love. Hence the latter is purer, more
refined and efficient than the former. If the members of the family are the
children of God, they will live together in the unity of the Spirit as well
as of natural affection. The sympathy of the pious portion will be
interposed in behalf of the salvation of the impenitent members. There will
be an identity of soul-interest. The pious mother will make the everlasting
interests of her husband and child, her own; and will labor with the same
assiduity to promote them as she does to promote her own salvation. She
will thus enter into the spiritual emotions of her kindred, and bear them
vicariously, making thus her religious sympathies the law of preservation
to all the members of her household.
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