experience, the fullness and sweetness of that simple line--“_As one
whom his mother comforteth_.”
Never let your child have his cry out alone. If he is old enough to
observe that yours is studied neglect, he has also sense sufficient to
enable him to put his own construction upon what is, to him, your cruel
indifference to his suffering; and just in proportion as he recognizes
and resents this, your influence over him is weakened; his faith in your
love shaken. If he is too young to guess why you disregard his outcry,
terror and pain lay hold of his spirit, as is evinced by the changed
tone of his lamentation. Shall I tell you a little story, just here, one
which is unfortunately drawn from life?
A mother--a good woman, but a trifle too strong of will, and wedded to a
pet theory of family government, according to which, children were but
machines, to be subject in every particular to the authority of the
chief engineer--one evening laid her babe, about ten months old, in his
crib, for the night. The child manifested great unwillingness to lie
still, and presently began to cry. The mother seated herself quietly to
work upon the other side of the room, and took no outward notice of his
screams. An elderly gentleman, a relative, was present, and
remonstrated with her upon her silence.
“He will certainly injure himself, if you do not stop his crying!”
“That is the old-fashioned doctrine,” replied the parent, with a smile
of conscious superiority. “I always expect one grand struggle for
supremacy with each of my children. He is in revolt now, and must be
treated as a rebel. If I yield, and take him up, the lesson is lost.”
“I don’t ask you to take him up! Only speak to him. He is well-nigh
heart-broken. He will rupture a blood-vessel.”
“No danger! It strengthens his lungs to cry in that uproarious manner. I
have known babies to scream for two or three hours, without sustaining
the least injury.”
“You will excuse me, at any rate, from staying here to see the battle
out!” and the uncle left the room.
Returning, at the end of an hour, he found the child still
screaming--now, in an anguished shriek that rent the man’s heart. The
woman and mother sat still and sewed steadily--it seemed calmly.
“I can not and will not bear this!” ejaculated the old gentleman. “If
you don’t take pity on that poor little thing, I will!”
“Uncle!” the niece lifted her stern eyes. “I permit no one--not even my
husband--to interfere in my management of my child. His passion is at
its height. It will soon subside.”
The cries were, indeed, growing less vehement. Too anxious to retire
again until the scene was over, the uncle walked the room, hearkening,
with tortured nerves, to the feebler and still feebler wail; sinking, by
and by, into fitful sobbings; then, into pants like those of a tired,
hunted-down animal. These came at longer and longer intervals--and all
was still. The uncle approached the crib, and bent over it.
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