Cities and towns; Social psychology; Sociology; Sociology, Urban
I think I could turn and live with animals, they are so placid and
self-contained, ...
They do not sweat and whine about their condition,
They do not lie awake in the dark and weep for their sins,
They do not make me sick discussing their duty to God,
No one is dissatisfied—not one is demented with the mania of owning
things,
Not one kneels to another, nor to his kind that lived thousands of years
ago,
Not one is respectable or industrious over the whole earth.
III. THE FAMILY AS A CORPORATE PERSON
After the individual’s own person, the most intimate environment to
which the person responds is the family. The family is, or was, under
earlier and simpler conditions of life, a sort of larger corporate
person. Among the Polish peasants, for example, where the family
completely dominates the individual, “husband and wife,” we are told,
“are not individuals more or less closely connected according to their
personal sentiments, but group members, controlled by both the united
families.”[59] It is on this basis that we can understand completely the
letters written by immigrant boys to their parents asking them to send
them wives:
DEAREST PARENTS:
Please do not be angry with me for what I shall write. I write you
that it is hard to live alone, so please find some girl for me, but an
orderly [honest] one, for in America there is not even one single
orderly [Polish] girl.... [December 21, 1902.] I thank you kindly for
your letter, for it was happy. As to the girl, although I don’t know
her, my companion, who knows her, says that she is stately and pretty,
and I believe him, as well as you, my parents.... Please inform me
which one (of the sisters) is to come, the older or the younger one,
whether Aledsandra or Stanislawa.[60]
Of such a family it may almost be said that the unrebellious and
completely accommodated individuals who compose it have ceased to exist
as persons. They have no independent social status and no personal
responsibilities except as members of the family group.
The family, as it exists under modern conditions, has fallen from the
high estimation in which it was held by an earlier generation. I once
heard a distinguished psychologist say that he had been forced to the
conclusion, after much patient study, that the family was probably the
worst possible place in which to bring up a child. In general, I should
say the psychiatrists seem to have a very poor opinion of the modern
family as an environment for children. This opinion, if it is not
justified, is at least supported by studies of juvenile delinquency made
some years ago, in which it appeared that 50 per cent of the
delinquencies studied were from broken homes.
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