Cities and towns; Social psychology; Sociology; Sociology, Urban
The “one-child family” is now generally recognized as one of the
characteristic social situations in which egocentric behavior is likely
to manifest itself. It is certain that parents, just because of their
solicitude for the welfare of their offspring, are not always safe
companions for them. However that may be today, it is certain that in
the past it was within the limits of the family group that most of the
traits which we may describe as human were originally developed.
Outside the circle of the family and the neighborhood, within which
intimate and the so-called “primary relations” are maintained, there is
the larger circle of influences we call the community; the local
community, and then the larger, organized community, represented by the
city and the nation. And out beyond the limits of these there are
beginning to emerge the vast and vague outlines of that larger
world-community which Graham Wallas has described under the title, _The
Great Society_.
The community, then, is the name that we give to this larger and most
inclusive social milieu, outside of ourselves, our family, and our
immediate neighborhood, in which the individual maintains not merely his
existence as an individual, but his life as a person.
The community, including the family, with its wider interests, its
larger purposes, and its more deliberate aims, surrounds us, incloses
us, and compels us to conform; not by mere pressure from without, not by
the fear of censure merely, but by the sense of our interest in, and
responsibility to, certain interests not our own.
The sources of our actions are, no doubt, in the organic impulses of the
individual man; but actual conduct is determined more or less by public
opinion, by custom, and by a code which exists outside of us in the
family, in the neighborhood, and in the community. This community,
however, with its less immediate purposes and its more deliberate aims,
is always more or less outside of, and alien to, us; much more so than
the family, for example, or any other congenial group. This is to such
an extent true that certain sociological writers have conceived society
as having an existence quite independent of the individuals who compose
it at any given time. Under these circumstances the natural condition of
the individual in society is one of conflict; conflict with other
individuals, to be sure, but particularly conflict with the conventions
and regulations of the social group of which he is a member. Personal
freedom—self-expression, as we have learned to call it in recent
years—is, therefore, if not a fruitless, still a never ending, quest.
Only gradually, as he succeeds in accommodating himself to the life of
the larger group, incorporating into the specific purposes and ambitions
of his own life the larger and calmer purposes of the society in which
he lives, does the individual man find himself quite at home in the
community of which he is a part.
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