To return to the belief formerly held that female infanticide was
rampant all over China. The next step was for the honest observer to
admit that it was not known in his own particular district, but to
declare that it was largely practised elsewhere. This view, however,
lost its validity when residents "elsewhere" had to allow that no
traces of infanticide could be found in their neighbourhood; and so
on. Luckily, still greater comfort is to be found in the following
argument,--a rare example of proving a negative--from which it will
be readily seen that female infanticide on any abnormal scale is
quite beyond the bounds of the possible. Those who have even a bowing
acquaintance with Chinese social life will grant that every boy, at
about the age of eighteen, is provided by his parents with a wife. They
must also concede the notorious fact that many well-to-do Chinese take
one or more concubines. The Emperor, indeed, is allowed seventy; but
this number exists only on paper as a regulation maximum. Now, if every
Chinaman has one wife, and many have two, over and above the host of
girls said to be annually sacrificed as worthless babies, it must follow
that the proportion of girls born in China enormously outnumbers the
proportion of boys, whereas in the rest of the world boys are well known
to be always in the majority. After this, it is perhaps superfluous to
state that, apart from the natural love of the parent, a girl is really,
even at a very early age, a marketable commodity. Girls are sometimes
sold into other families to be brought up as wives for the sons;
more often, to be used as servants, under what is of course a form of
slavery, qualified by the important condition, which can be enforced by
law, that when of a marriageable age, the girl's master shall find her
a husband. Illegitimate children, the source of so much baby-farming and
infanticide elsewhere, are practically unknown in China; and the same
may be said of divorce. A woman cannot legally divorce her husband. In
rare cases she will leave him, and return to her family, in spite of the
fact that he can legally insist upon her return; for she knows well that
if her case is good, the husband will not dare to risk the scandal of an
exposure, not to mention the almost certain vengeance of her
affronted kinsmen. It is also the fear of such vengeance that prevents
mothers-in-law from ill-treating the girls who pass into their new homes
rather as servants than daughters to the husband's mother. Every
woman, as indeed every man, has one final appeal by which to punish an
oppressor. She may commit suicide, there being no canon, legal or moral,
against self-slaughter; and in China, where, contrary to widespread
notions on the subject, human life is held in the highest degree sacred,
this course is sure to entail trouble and expense, and possibly severe
punishment, if the aggrieved parties are not promptly conciliated by a
heavy money payment.
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