There is the case of the young woman who not only had an incessant and
excessive sexual craving, but who desired any and every man she met.
It took all her strength to hide her feelings, for she was well-bred,
sensitive, and with a high standard. She went to a noted analyst who
discovered that she was the rare case of a woman who belonged to the
thinking type. But thinking in her circle was not favored when it came
to women. She had therefore neglected to develop her intellect, and
as soon as she began to do so, the symptom disappeared and she became
quite normal.
It should be clear from these cases that wherever perverse sexuality
appears, there is need of an investigation. It is necessary to discover
if it isn’t a case of misplaced energy. Indeed, one may say offhand,
that all _excessive_ cases are of this nature, as for instance, a
marked sadism (sexual cruelty), a marked homosexuality, a too great
sexual desire. Such cases need the treatment of a psycho-analyst.
However, if energy may be misplaced _to_ the sexual zone, it may also
be misplaced _from_ the sexual zone. This is particularly true in this
country, because of our Puritan tradition. It was no longer ago than my
own childhood that a vast array of American children were taught that
sex is a bad thing; that to think in sexual terms was evil, that to
commit sexual acts was wicked; and that sexuality existed solely for
the purpose of propagating the species. It was whispered about that
auto-erotism led to insanity or loss of manhood. Words like gonorrhea
and syphilis were not mentioned, and ignorance in sexual matters was
not only disastrous, but, one might say, criminal. There were women
who came to marriage without any inkling of how children were born;
there were boys who doubtless did go insane from the practice of
auto-eroticism, not because the practice hurt them, but because of the
shame and fear attached to their “secret sin.”
This darkness has not wholly vanished yet, though much light has
appeared. It is natural that many sensitive people, growing up in such
an atmosphere, should _repress_ their sexuality. In certain cases this
might do no harm; an intuitive woman, for instance, might be all the
better for it. But since sexuality is a powerful instinct which needs
in the end its own natural expression, the repression of it, in many
cases, would mean that sexual energy was misplaced away from the sexual
zone, and produced a symptom.
Perhaps the simplest way of saying it is this, that whatever we attempt
to repress in ourselves we tend to repress in others. If we have cut
off the glow of life in ourselves, we come under a compulsion sometimes
to cut off others in the same way. This is where the misplaced sexual
energy goes. We become crusaders, we go out and fight vice wherever it
shows its head, we censor art, we bring about prohibition. We become
persecutors, driven by a kind of madness, thus poisoning our own lives
and the lives of others.
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