Question her about her housework experience, her ability to do plain
cooking and baking, make beds, serve, wash, and iron. She cannot
possibly be an expert along each of these lines, perhaps not on one
even, but a general working knowledge of all is very desirable. Have a
complete understanding with her at the outset regarding her work,
wages, hours of work and of leisure, and breakages. Don't try to put
the best foot forward, though there is no particular harm in pointing
out the special advantages she would enjoy in your home, but give her a
frank and honest statement of what she may expect. If she asks you, as
she no doubt will, if you have much company, say so, if you have, but
add that you will relieve her as much as you can of the extra work
entailed. And don't resent her asking about the size of your family,
and about her room, for she would naturally be interested in both. A
complete understanding at every point may save considerable future
trouble. The question of a uniform may come up during your talk. Some
girls absolutely refuse to don anything which looks to them like a
badge of servitude; if this happens, let it go, because you know it is
not an absolute essential. At the close of the conference ask for
references. No mistress is obliged to give a reference to her
departing servant, but if she does so it ought, in all conscience, to
be an honest one. It is a deplorable fact that many housekeepers,
either in a desire to be magnanimous, or to avoid a scene or annoyance,
give utterly undeserved recommendations, thus opening the way for other
reigns of terror which a little personal application of
do-as-you-would-be-done-by could have prevented. Investigate these
references, either in person or by letter; otherwise you may discover
later on that they were forged by the girl herself or by some of her
accommodating friends.
AGREEMENTS
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