I wish cities could teach their best lesson,—of quiet manners. It is
the foible especially of American youth,—pretension. The mark of the
man of the world is absence of pretension. He does not make a speech;
he takes a low business-tone, avoids all brag, is nobody, dresses
plainly, promises not at all, performs much, speaks in monosyllables,
hugs his fact. He calls his employment by its lowest name, and so takes
from evil tongues their sharpest weapon. His conversation clings to the
weather and the news, yet he allows himself to be surprised into
thought, and the unlocking of his learning and philosophy. How the
imagination is piqued by anecdotes of some great man passing incognito,
as a king in gray clothes,—of Napoleon affecting a plain suit at his
glittering levee; of Burns, or Scott, or Beethoven, or Wellington, or
Goethe, or any container of transcendent power, passing for nobody; of
Epaminondas, "who never says anything, but will listen eternally;" of
Goethe, who preferred trifling subjects and common expressions in
intercourse with strangers, worse rather than better clothes, and to
appear a little more capricious than he was. There are advantages in
the old hat and box-coat. I have heard, that, throughout this country,
a certain respect is paid to good broadcloth; but dress makes a little
restraint: men will not commit themselves. But the box-coat is like
wine; it unlocks the tongue, and men say what they think. An old poet
says,
"Go far and go sparing,
For you’ll find it certain,
The poorer and the baser you appear,
The more you’ll look through still."²
² Beaumont and Fletcher: _The Tamer Tamed_.
Not much otherwise Milnes writes, in the "Lay of the Humble,"
"To me men are for what they are,
They wear no masks with me."
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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