The Correspondence of Madame, Princess Palatine, Mother of the Regent; of Marie-Adélaïde de Savoie, Duchesse de Bourgogne; and of Madame de Maintenon, in Relation to Saint-CyrOrléans, Charlotte-Elisabeth, duchesse d'
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The Correspondence of Madame, Princess Palatine, Mother of the Regent; of Marie-Adélaïde de Savoie, Duchesse de Bourgogne; and of Madame de Maintenon, in Relation to Saint-Cyr
Orléans, Charlotte-Elisabeth, duchesse d'
France -- Court and courtiers; French letters; Maison royale de Saint-Louis (Saint-Cyr l'École, France)
The pain I feel about the daughters of Saint-Cyr can only be relieved
by time and by a total change in the education we have given them up
to this time. It is very just that I should suffer because I have
contributed to the harm more than any one; I shall be happy if God
does not punish me more severely. My pride has been in everything
concerning the establishment; and its depth is so great it carries
the day against my own good intentions. God knows that I wanted to
establish virtue at Saint-Cyr, but I have built on sand,--not having
that which alone can make a firm foundation. I wanted that the girls
should have intelligence, that their hearts should be uplifted, their
reason formed. I have succeeded in my purpose: they have intelligence,
and they use it against us; their hearts are uplifted, and they
are prouder and more haughty than is becoming in the greatest
princesses--speaking as the world thinks; we have formed their reason,
and we have made them disputatious, presumptuous, inquisitive, bold,
etc. Thus it is that we succeed when the desire of excelling [shining]
makes us act. A simple, Christian education would have made good
girls, out of whom we could have made good wives and good nuns; we
have made _beaux-esprits_, whom we ourselves who made them cannot
endure: there is our blame, in which I have a greater share than any
one.
Let us come to the remedy; for we must not be discouraged. I have
already proposed some to Balbien [Mme. de Maintenon's waiting-maid
mentioned in "Saint-Simon" as Nanon]. They may seem to you rather
petty, but I hope, by the grace of God, they will not be without
effect. As many little things have fomented pride, so many little
things will subdue it. Our girls have been too much considered, too
petted, too often deferred to. They must now be ignored in their
classes; they must be made to keep the rules of the day; and little
else must be talked of. They should not be forced to feel that I am
angry with them; it is not their grief that I want; I am more to
blame than they; I desire only to repair by another line of conduct
the harm that has been done. The best girls have done more to show me
the excess of pride which we must now correct than the bad ones; I
have been more alarmed at seeing their self-conceit and the arrogance
of Mlles. de ----, de ----, and de ---- than at all that I have
heard of the insubordinate members of the class. These are girls
of good intentions who wish to be nuns, but with that desire they
have a language and manners too proud and haughty to be tolerated
at Versailles among young ladies of the highest rank. You see by
this that the evil has sunk into their natures, so that they are not
themselves aware of it. Pray God, and make others pray that He will
change their hearts, and give us all humility. But, madame, do not
discourse to them too much. All Saint-Cyr is turning to discourses;
much is said there just now of simplicity; they seek to define it, to
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