The Correspondence of Madame, Princess Palatine, Mother of the Regent; of Marie-Adélaïde de Savoie, Duchesse de Bourgogne; and of Madame de Maintenon, in Relation to Saint-CyrOrléans, Charlotte-Elisabeth, duchesse d'
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The Correspondence of Madame, Princess Palatine, Mother of the Regent; of Marie-Adélaïde de Savoie, Duchesse de Bourgogne; and of Madame de Maintenon, in Relation to Saint-Cyr
Orléans, Charlotte-Elisabeth, duchesse d'
France -- Court and courtiers; French letters; Maison royale de Saint-Louis (Saint-Cyr l'École, France)
comprehend it, to discern what is simple and what is not; and then
in practice they say: "Out of simplicity, I take the best thing; out
of simplicity I praise myself; out of simplicity I want something at
table that is far away from me." Truly, this is turning into ridicule
all that is most serious. We must now correct in our girls that turn
for witty satire which I myself have given them, and which I now see
to be opposed to simplicity; it is a refinement of pride that says in
jest what it dares not say openly. But, once more, do not talk to them
of pride or satire; we must destroy all that without fighting it, by
stopping the use of it; their confessors will talk to them of humility
better than we. Do not preach to them,--try that silence that I have
so long urged upon you; it will have more effect than all our words.
I am very glad that Mlle. de ---- has at last humbled herself; let us
praise God for it, but do not praise her; it is another of our faults
that we have praised too much. Do not irritate their pride by too
frequent corrections; but when you are obliged to make one, do not
admire the girl who is corrected for taking it properly.
As for you, my dear daughter, I know your intentions; you have, it
seems to me, no personal blame in all this; it is only too true that
the great harm has come from me; but take care, with the others,
to have no part in that pride which has been so firmly established
everywhere that we are scarcely conscious of it. We wanted to
avoid the pettiness of certain convents, and God has punished our
assumption. There is no house in the world more in need of external
and internal humility than ours: its situation so near the Court,
its grandeur, its wealth, its nobleness, the air of favour that
pervades it, the attentions of a great king, the care of a person of
influence, the example of vanity and manners of the world which she
gives you in spite of herself by force of habit,--all these dangerous
traps ought to make us take measures quite the contrary of those we
have hitherto taken. Let us bless God for having opened our eyes. It
is he who inspires your piety; it will daily increase; but establish
it solidly. Let us not be ashamed to retract; to change our fashions
of acting and speaking; and let us ask our Lord fervently to change
our hearts within us, to take from our house the spirit of loftiness,
of satire, of subtlety, of curiosity, and of freedom in judging and
giving our opinion about everything, and of meddling in the duties
of others at the risk of wounding charity. Let us pray also that He
will take from us that prevailing over-delicacy, that impatience of
small inconveniences; silence and humility are the best means. Show my
letter to our Mother Superior; all must be in common among us.
_To Mme. de Radouay_ (mistress-general of the classes).
MARLY, 1692.
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