The Deipnosophists; or, Banquet of the Learned of Athenæus, Vol. 3 (of 3)Athenaeus, of Naucratis
Philosophy
The Deipnosophists; or, Banquet of the Learned of Athenæus, Vol. 3 (of 3)
Athenaeus, of Naucratis
Civilization, Greco-Roman; Dinners and dining -- Greece; Greece -- Social life and customs; Homosexuality -- Greece
Now you are old, reform those ways of yours;
Know you not that 'tis hardly well to die
In the embraces of a prostitute,
As men do say Phormisius perished?
Or do you think that delightful which Timocles speaks of in his
Marathonian Women?—
[Sidenote: HETÆRÆ.]
How great the difference whether you pass the night
With a lawful wife or with a prostitute!
Bah! Where's the firmness of the flesh, the freshness
Of breath and of complexion? Oh, ye gods!
What appetite it gives one not to find
Everything waiting, but to be constrain'd
To struggle a little, and from tender hands
To bear soft blows and bullets; that, indeed,
Is really pleasure.
And as Cynulcus had still a good deal which he wished to say, and as
Magnus was preparing to attack him for the sake of Myrtilus,—Myrtilus,
being beforehand with him (for he hated the Syrian), said—
But our hopes were not so clean worn out,
As to need aid from bitter enemies;
as Callimachus says. For are not we, O Cynulcus, able to defend
ourselves?
How rude you are, and boorish with your jokes!
Your tongue is all on the left side of your mouth;
as Ephippus says in his Philyra. For you seem to me to be one of those
men
Who of the Muses learnt but ill-shaped letters,
as some one of the parody writers has it.
28. I therefore, my friends and messmates, have not, as is said in the
Auræ of Metagenes, or in the Mammacythus of Aristagoras,
Told you of female dancers, courtesans
Who once were fair; and now I do not tell you
Of flute-playing girls, just reaching womanhood,
Who not unwillingly, for adequate pay,
Have borne the love of vulgar men;
but I have been speaking of regular professional Hetæræ—that is to say,
of those who are able to preserve a friendship free from trickery; whom
Cynulcus does not venture to speak ill of, and who of all women are the
only ones who have derived their name from friendship, or from that
goddess who is named by the Athenians Venus Hetæra: concerning whom
Apollodorus the Athenian speaks, in his treatise on the Gods, in the
following manner:—"And they worship Venus Hetæra, who brings together
male and female companions (ἑταίρους καὶ ἑταίρας)—that is to say,
mistresses." Accordingly, even to this day, freeborn women and maidens
call their associates and friends their ἑταῖραι; as Sappho does, where
she says—
And now with tuneful voice I'll sing
These pleasing songs to my companions (ἑταίραις).
And in another place she says—
Niobe and Latona were of old
Affectionate companions (ἑταῖραι) to each other.
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