The deserted wifeSouthworth, Emma Dorothy Eliza Nevitte
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The deserted wife
Southworth, Emma Dorothy Eliza Nevitte
American fiction -- 19th century; Maryland -- Fiction
A little, dark, wild, shy child, whose peculiar organization demanded
that her shyness should be conquered by kindness, her wildness tamed by
gentleness, her self-distrust reassured by confidence, is disparaged and
neglected, while her more beautiful companion and playmate, whose
extreme tenderness and sensibility required the bracing process of a
sterner training, is flattered and caressed; until wounded by the loss
of love, the slighted child grows doubtful of herself, distrustful of
others, and jealous of her more attractive rival, hard, proud and
defiant to all she did _not_ love, suspicious and exacting towards the
only one she adored; and the favored child, enervated by indulgence,
grows more and more dependent on the love of those about her, more and
more incapable of resisting any temptation that appeals to her through
her affections; and these evils have grown with the growth, and
strengthened with the strength of the children, of the girls, of the
women. Alas! who can see the end of the interminable evil resulting from
one small mistake in education; and from what wanton carelessness, even
in well meaning parents and teachers, these mistakes are made; and
sometimes how intentionally and in what good faith they are committed!
Heaven knows there would seem to be enough to do to eradicate
_hereditary_ evil, the roots of sin indigenous in the hearts of
children, without laboring to sow there the seeds of errors foreign to
the soil. The low vice of jealousy was foreign to the high temperament
of our Hagar; yet how it had been planted, sunk, trodden deep, and
stamped into the bottom of her heart. The mean sins of indolence,
selfishness, and vanity were not native to the pure soil of our
Rosalia’s bosom, yet how sedulously they had been cultivated there!
Rosalia, the petted favorite, whose soft nature, while it pleaded for
indulgence, really needed the hardening process of a strict
training—Rosalia, still further enfeebled by fondness, has grown softer
and weaker year by year; softer and weaker, until from very tenderness
she is rendered incapable of resisting the solicitations of any evil
that may tempt her through her sympathies. Rosalia has grown up gentle,
tender, lovely, but vain, infirm, and unprincipled. Hagar, whose wild
and shy temper needed to be wooed and won, and ameliorated by
tenderness—Hagar still further repulsed, hardened, and alienated by
neglect, harshness, and caprice—Hagar is still high spirited and
faithful, but inclined to entertain envy, suspicion, and jealousy; foul
blots on a fine character.
Her jealousy of Rosalia was especially natural, and logical—I had nearly
said inevitable—not only from the fascinating beauty of her rival from
infancy up to womanhood, but from the very character of her ONE
affection.
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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