The deserted wifeSouthworth, Emma Dorothy Eliza Nevitte
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The deserted wife
Southworth, Emma Dorothy Eliza Nevitte
American fiction -- 19th century; Maryland -- Fiction
A defective physical education is one of the primary causes of
unhappiness in the marriage relation. A girl cannot be a useful or a
happy wife, and she cannot make her husband and her children happy, or
even comfortable, unless she be a healthy woman. In Great Britain, a
girl in delicate health never expects to be married, and her friends
never desire it for her. American girls are proverbially delicate in
organization, and frail in health, and their mothers were delicate
before them, and their children will be still more delicate after them,
unless there is a great reform in physical cultivation. Such a reform is
happily beginning in the North. It is yet unthought of here, and in the
West and South. Daily exercise by walking, skipping rope, calisthenics,
horseback riding, which bring all the limbs and muscles into play; daily
bathing in cold water on first rising in the morning; fresh air, simple,
plain food, the disuse of coffee and tea, comfortable clothing, the
disuse of tight ligatures, corsets, tight-waisted dresses, tight shoes,
&c., are the best features of this excellent system of physical
training. I believe that a young person with a good constitution to
commence with, faithfully following these means for the preservation of
health, with the blessing of God, will not fade or break until she is
fifty, nor die until she is an hundred years old. I believe that youth,
health, beauty, strength, and life can be greatly prolonged beyond their
present average, and that we were all intended to live twice or three
times as long as with our sad mal-treatment we do live.
American children (with the exception of a very few, whose parents know
and practise better) grow up drinking hot tea and coffee, eating hot
meats and rich gravies and pastries, never bathing, taking little
exercise, confined in crowded school-rooms or close house-rooms, and
become narrow-shouldered, hollow-cheeked, pale, sickly, nervous, and
fretful; they marry early companions as pale, sickly, nervous, and
fretful as themselves, and have children _twice_ as pale, sickly,
nervous, and fretful as their parents, and discord and other domestic
miseries are such inevitable results that we _must_ pity, and can
scarcely blame the victims. They cry out in their agony for separation,
divorce, for reform in social laws, when the truth is, no reform would
cure their evils without a reform in their personal habits; such a
reform as would give health, consequently good humor, and lastly,
happiness.
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