The Desultory Man: Collection of Ancient and Modern British Novels and Romances. Vol. CXLVII.James, G. P. R. (George Payne Rainsford)
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The Desultory Man: Collection of Ancient and Modern British Novels and Romances. Vol. CXLVII.
James, G. P. R. (George Payne Rainsford)
Fiction
A Frenchman's politeness consists much more in small talk and petty
ceremonies than in any real elegance of person or of mind. They have
told the world so often that they are the most civilized nation in
Europe, that the world believes it. It is true, they have an immensity
of the jargon of society, a quickness in catching and appreciating the
tastes and ideas of others, and a great fund of good-nature, which
makes them love to see all around them at their ease; but their vanity
stands much in the way of their politeness. An Englishman may perhaps
over-rate both himself and his country, but he is contented with his
own opinion, and cares little what others think on the subject; but a
Frenchman wishes every one to acknowledge, and takes the greatest
pains to prove, that France is the first country and himself the first
man in the world. A Frenchman, however, has much more of the two great
principles on which real politeness is founded than an Englishman. He
is by nature an infinitely more good-humoured being, and he has more
of that inestimable quality which he himself calls _tact_.
If the French called themselves simply the most polite nation in the
world, we might be inclined to admit the claim. When they say they are
the most _civilized_, we instantly deny it. I have seen an actress and
a famous actress too, stop in the midst of one of Racine's finest
speeches to spit in her pocket handkerchief, before the whole
audience. I asked the gentleman next me if such were a common
occurrence. He seemed surprised at the question, and said, what could
she do? She must spit! Did we not spit in England? he asked. I told
him not in general, and never in genteel society. He said, "Oh!" and
without doubt did not believe a word I said; for, let it be remarked,
that the French generally have no more idea of our manners and customs
than if we were placed at one pole and they at the other. A great
proportion of the French people look upon us as a kind of Sandwich
Islanders--imagine that we never see the sun--that our atmosphere is
one constant fog--that we eat nothing but beef and potatoes--that we
drink nothing but tea and porter--and that our only ripe fruit is.
baked apples.[12] Let me do them justice, however; rarely or ever
would an Englishman have been insulted by the populace of France with
those brutal appellations which the lower classes in England did not
fail to bestow upon the French, when they discovered them in the
streets of London during the war. If the higher class of society in
France, is not so refined as the same class in England, and I do not
scruple to say that it is not, there is much more urbanity, and real
or acquired politeness, amongst the peasantry of the former country.
One or the greatest differences, however, between the two countries is
the one which is least favourable to England and the most honourable
to France. France is always anxious to improve, and the whole nation
drags on the unwilling few.
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