The Desultory Man: Collection of Ancient and Modern British Novels and Romances. Vol. CXLVII.James, G. P. R. (George Payne Rainsford)
General
The Desultory Man: Collection of Ancient and Modern British Novels and Romances. Vol. CXLVII.
James, G. P. R. (George Payne Rainsford)
Fiction
circumstance, every custom on these occasions leaves little room for
the expectation of domestic felicity.
A young lady is to be married, and a young gentleman is found in the
necessary predicament. She is promised a certain dower, and he is
possessed of a certain fortune, into the state of which, as in duty
bound, her parents make the strictest inquiry. But the case is widely
different on the part of the young gentleman. No inquiry must be made
by him. The character of his future bride it is impossible for him to
know, that of her relations concerns him little, and into their means
of giving the dower they promise, he is forbidden to inquire, on pain
of excommunication. Any doubt on the subject would show that their
daughter did not possess his love!--O that prostituted name love! used
every day to quality the basest and most ignoble feelings of our
nature.
But to go on with the history of a French marriage. The contract
generally imports, that the father of the young lady shall pay a
certain yearly sum to her husband, and a further sum is promised to be
left her at the death of her parents. The benefits of this arrangement
are obvious and manifold, and well calculated to check the exorbitant
power which husbands have over their wives.
A part of the ceremony, and one of the most essential, is the
_corbeille de marriage_, or wedding present from the lover to his
bride. This is scarcely a matter of courtesy alone, as some might
imagine, but almost of right, which the young lady would yield upon no
consideration whatever. It is a sort of price, and is expected to be
the amount of two years' revenue.
The _corbeille_ is a basket lined with white satin, and containing a
variety of articles of dress and jewellery. One indispensable part is
a cashemere; and the rest is made up of laces, diamonds, and all the
thousand little nothings which enter into the composition of a fine
lady.
The civil ceremony at the commune is all which the present law
requires, but the religious part is seldom if ever dispensed with. The
first takes place generally in the morning, without any display. The
ceremonies of the church however are delayed till near midnight, and
have in general the advantage of new scenery, dresses, and
decorations. The higher the class, and the better the taste of the
parties, of course, the simpler are all the arrangements, and the
fewer and more nearly connected are the persons present. With such a
system is it possible that there can be such a thing as _home?_ That
it is possible--that it may be found, is one of the finest traits of
the French character. All their habits, all their customs, from time
immemorial, have been opposed to domestic life; and yet they
occasionally create it for themselves.
TRAVELLING.
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