Kohut: "It is not that the self-experiences are given up and replaced
by ... a more mature or developmentally more advanced experience of
objects." [Ibid.]
This dichotomy inevitably led to a dichotomy of disorders. Kohut agreed
with Freud that neuroses are conglomerates of defence mechanisms,
formations, symptoms, and unconscious conflicts. He even did not object
to identifying unresolved Oedipal conflicts (ungratified unconscious
wishes and their objects) as the root of neuroses. But he identified a
whole new class of disorders: the self-disorders. These were the result
of the perturbed development of narcissism.
It was not a cosmetic or superficial distinction. Self-disorders were
the results of childhood traumas very much different to Freud's
Oedipal, castration and other conflicts and fears. These are the
traumas of the child either not being "seen" (that is not being
affirmed by objects, especially the Primary Objects, the parents) - or
being regarded merely as an object for gratification or abuse. Such
children develop to become adults who are not sure that they do exist
(lack a sense of self-continuity) or that they are worth anything (lack
of self-worth, or self-esteem). They suffer depressions, as neurotics
do. But the source of these depressions is existential (a gnawing
sensation of emptiness) as opposed to the "guilty-conscious"
depressions of neurotics.
Such depressions: "...are interrupted by rages because things are not
going their way, because responses are not forthcoming in the way they
expected and needed. Some of them may even search for conflict to
relieve the pain and intense suffering of the poorly established self,
the pain of the discontinuous, fragmenting, undercathected self of the
child not seen or responded to as a unit of its own, not recognised as
an independent self who wants to feel like somebody, who wants to go
its own way [see Lecture 22]. They are individuals whose disorders can
be understood and treated only by taking into consideration the
formative experiences in childhood of the total body-mind-self and its
self-object environment - for instance, the experiences of joy of the
total self feeling confirmed, which leads to pride, self-esteem, zest,
and initiative; or the experiences of shame, loss of vitality,
deadness, and depression of the self who does not have the feeling of
being included, welcomed, and enjoyed."
(Paul and Marian Tolpin (Eds.). The Preface to the "Chicago Institute
Lectures 1972-1976 of H. Kohut", 1996)
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