There was one of his countrymen indeed there (so far as a Scotchman
may be called so) with whom he formed an acquaintance that might have
ripened into intimacy, if their lots had fallen near to each other in
after life. This was Thomas Dickson, a native of Dumfries; they
attended the same lectures, and consorted on terms of friendly
familiarity. But when their University course is completed men
separate, like stage-coach travellers at the end of a journey, or
fellow passengers in a ship when they reach their port. While Dove
“pursued the noiseless tenor of his way” at Doncaster, Dickson tried
his fortune in the metropolis, where he became Physician to the London
Hospital, and a Fellow of the Royal Society. He died in the year 1784,
and is said in his epitaph to have been “a man of singular probity,
loyalty and humanity; kind to his relations, beloved by all who knew
him, learned and skilful in his profession. Unfeed by the poor, he
lived to do good, and died a christian believer.” For awhile some
intercourse between him and the Doctor had been kept up by letters;
but the intervals in their correspondence became longer and longer as
each grew more engaged in business; and new connections gradually
effaced an impression which had not been made early, nor had ever been
very deep. The friendship that with no intercourse to nourish it,
keeps itself alive for years, must have strong roots in a good soil.
Cowper regarded these early connections in an unfavourable and
melancholy mood. “For my own part,” says he, “I found such
friendships, though warm enough in their commencement, surprisingly
liable to extinction; and of seven or eight whom I had selected for
intimates out of about three hundred, in ten years time not one was
left me. The truth is that there may be, and often is, an attachment
of one boy to another, that looks very like a friendship; and while
they are in circumstances that enable them mutually to oblige and to
assist each other, promises well and bids fair to be lasting. But they
are no sooner separated from each other, by entering into the world at
large, than other connexions and new employments in which they no
longer share together, efface the remembrance of what passed in
earlier days, and they become strangers to each other for ever. Add to
this the _man_ frequently differs so much from the _boy_,—his
principles, manners, temper, and conduct, undergo so great an
alteration,—that we no longer recognize in him our old play-fellow,
but find him utterly unworthy and unfit for the place he once held in
our affections.” These sentiments he has also expressed in verse.—
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