Gifted, as we confessedly are, with nicer and more acute perceptions,
finer powers of discrimination and judgment, greater delicacy of
feeling, and more apt appreciation of the beautiful and the true, why
should we descend to an intellectual bondage? As dearest Josephine
says, "Our influence, to be beneficial, should be candidly and openly
exercised, not furtively practised, and cunningly insinuated. Let us
leave these arts to women who want to rule their husbands; our destiny
be it--to sway mankind!" Her theory, so far as I understand it, is that
men will not endure petty rivalries, but succumb at once to superior
attainments. Thus, your masculine young lady, Kitty,--your creature of
boisterous manners, slang, and slap-dash,--is invariably a disgust;
but your true "lionne," gifted yet graceful, possessing every manly
accomplishment and yet employing her knowledge to enhance the charms of
her society and render herself more truly companionable, the equal of
men in culture, their superior in taste and refinement, exercises a
despotic influence around her.
Men will quit the _salon_ for the play-table. Let us, then, be gamblers
for the nonce, and we shall not be deserted. They smoke, that they may
get together and talk with a freedom and a license not used before
us. Let us adopt the custom, and we are no longer debarred from their
intimacy and the power of infusing the refining influences of our sex
through their barbarism! As Josephine says, "We are the martyrs now,
that we may be the masters hereafter!"
I grew very faint, once or twice, while she was talking; and, indeed,
at last was obliged to lie down, and have my temples bathed with
eau-de-Cologne, so that I unluckily lost many of her strongest arguments
and happiest illustrations; but, from frequent conversations since, and
from reading some of the beautiful romances of "Georges Sand," I
have attained to, if not a full appreciation, at least an unbounded
admiration of this beautiful system.
Have I forgotten to tell you that we met the Prince of Pontremoli on our
way here?--a Serene Highness, Kitty! but as easy and as familiar as my
brother James. The drollest thing is that he has lived while in England
with all the "fast people," and only talks a species of conventional
slang in vogue amongst them; but for all that he is delightful,--full
of gayety and good spirits, and has the wickedest dark eyes you ever
beheld.
Dear Josephine's caprices are boundless! Yesterday she read of a black
Arabian that the Imaum of somewhere was sending as a present to General
Lamoricière, and she immediately said, "Oh, the General is exiled now,
he can't want a charger,--send and get him for _me_." Poor James is
out all the morning in search of some one to despatch on this difficult
service; but how it is to be accomplished--not to speak of where the
money is to come from--is an unreadable riddle to
Your affectionate and devoted
Mary Anne Dodd.
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